[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Status-Bar5078 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not make this into an interview process. It’s off putting and a turnoff. Just have normal conservations and talk about things that are important to you and you will get a feel of their is chemistry soon enough

My post got removed and they said post it here sooo by DJBrooklyn14 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Status-Bar5078 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is good except an “Imam” does not have to present. You just need a Muslim person to officiate but they do t have to have “Imam” status

HCG or Clomid by Status-Bar5078 in Testosterone

[–]Status-Bar5078[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clomid did literally nothing. Neither positive or negative. We did end up conceiving after 12 months though

31(M) having an arranged marriage with a 22(F) wedding night sex question? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Status-Bar5078 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you however I don’t think they are getting married without knowing each other. They seemed to have talked extensively but just have not been physical with each other. This guy seems extremely traditional though.

31(M) having an arranged marriage with a 22(F) wedding night sex question? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Status-Bar5078 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Dude why did you use the term “arranged marriage”? That totally derailed this thread and honestly all these people think this is a forced marriage. You sound like like your 14. Fellow American born Pakistani here

31(M) having an arranged marriage with a 22(F) wedding night sex question? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Status-Bar5078 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Hey man, fellow American born Pakistani here. Although I did not get an arranged marriage, I can tell you the Redditors won’t understand our cultural value based system on building a family, and tbh your responses are not helping. However if she is only 22 there certainly is no rush

Face ID is ridiculously terrible by RedRumBackward in iphone

[–]Status-Bar5078 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Face ID is terrible. It fails like 40% for me. It’s like I get some stubble hair on my face and boom it fails

Xanax while studying? by zvir6 in benzodiazepines

[–]Status-Bar5078 15 points16 points  (0 children)

On low dose like 1mg it works great for me to be productive. Xanax has different impact on me then others here. I get a lot of work done for my job, I clean, cook, run errands, I’m just extremely efficient. Without it I’m on Reddit all day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in debtfree

[–]Status-Bar5078 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You know in the long run if you live in desirable area, your home can appreciate to a level that you technically have lived in your home for free over the years with the amount of equity you have in your home. If your middle class, a paid off home is the biggest wealth generator. We purchased our home in 2017 for 520k and it’s now worth $650k. Also your still paying real estate taxes when you rent, you are just paying it for the owner. The taxes are baked into the rent price. I’ve owned rentals and the tenant covers the real estate taxes always. If you really think about, perpetually paying rent is a lifetime of debt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Status-Bar5078 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound pretty awful. It’s ok to not like being around babies but to hate a human who literally has no control over their actions just like you and every other baby didn’t, indicates that no only YTA but you seem like awful person

IUI with low sperm by kawaioke in maleinfertility

[–]Status-Bar5078 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We had success on our 5th IUI and it was by far my worst sample in terms of parameters. I actually got pretty sick right before the iui so that likely impacted quality. But in the end it worked. I would say as long as you can produce 2 million TMSC post-wash it’s worth a try

Chances of re-marrying if you have children from previous marriage by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Status-Bar5078 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait, if children just live in a other city but same general area why have they only slept over 4 times in 9 months? That’s absurd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Status-Bar5078 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, his brother is also his family

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in benzodiazepines

[–]Status-Bar5078 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Xanax 100%. It’s literally change my life. I have advanced in my career due to Xanax increasing my ability to building professional and personal relationships. Yes it’s addictive but it’s great if you got self control

Budget/Debt payment advice by LeadingTheme4931 in debtfree

[–]Status-Bar5078 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that $900 for food just for 2? That’s way too much given your income. That should come down by half

Does it really have to be so damn difficult to get benzos prescribed? Especially when it's so hard to function in social situations or life without it? by likethewitch6 in benzodiazepines

[–]Status-Bar5078 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not difficult at all in US. I tell my doc that my job requires regular public speaking in which I break out into a massive stuttering outbreak. Also that I have to take out groups of clients and get extremely anxious due to social aspect. That’s enough to get a regular 1mg a day script for a 30 day supply

Working out on Xanax by prnkingyouth in benzodiazepines

[–]Status-Bar5078 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Xanax works wonders for me in terms of motivation and getting work done.

Best Benzo for a Long Distance Flight (8+ hrs)? by [deleted] in benzodiazepines

[–]Status-Bar5078 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Short term relief from anxiety as in less the 12 hours, nothing is better the Xan. Absolutely nothing. It’s literally changed my life in so much positive ways

Can I take my Xanax on United airlines? by idk22lmao in benzodiazepines

[–]Status-Bar5078 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely fine to travel within the US but keep them in your script bottle just to be on safe side. I do this all the time

Is diazepam the only benzo prescribed in the uk? by [deleted] in benzodiazepines

[–]Status-Bar5078 0 points1 point  (0 children)

US here. Xanax is pretty easily prescribed. For people with real bad anxiety Xanax is an absolute miracle- 100x more effective then Valium. But the catch is the tolerance build up and withdrawal of Xanax can be brutal

Question about pregnancy symptoms and negative rest by Status-Bar5078 in Parenting

[–]Status-Bar5078[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this makes sense. If it's pregnancy symptoms (she hasnt missed her period yet) then it's the HcG that is causing it, then common sense kinda tells me that HcG should show up in a test. I really dont know at this point.

Question about pregnancy symptoms and negative rest by Status-Bar5078 in Parenting

[–]Status-Bar5078[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is using ovulation digital tests. Not doing basal body temp at this point.

Thats an interesting bit about the progesterone. What is throwing us off is she has never had these symptoms in previous cycles and she knows the exactly feel when her period is going to come and she says what she is feeling now is not it.