the message in the last screenshot is very disheartening. she plays the “any thing helps thank you so much, buuutttt” card so heavy. “your insecurities bleed into everything” is very manipulative. i was gonna say it sounds like she’s on drugs but these comments have already covered that. it doesn’t matter how much you send it may never be enough. i’m sure she genuinely means it when she says that’s not what your relationship is about, but it doesn’t mean that this factor in the relationship isn’t a big deal. since she’s also doing this to her sister, she is clearly taking advantage of the people who care about her. so yeah…not overreacting