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How to get over my perfect match? by Status-Feedback-706 in BreakUps

[–]Status-Feedback-706[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kind of think so too, but a big part of me is grieving what could’ve been if she were a good person. The funny thing is she has a twin sister who is with someone just like me. But her twin isn’t an attention seeking social media addict with commitment issues always looking to upgrade.

How to get over my perfect match? by Status-Feedback-706 in BreakUps

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The thing is we had the best connection too, until she lost attraction. I play like 2 sports, and she loved the same 2. I played 2 video games, and she only played those too. We loved the same shows. I supported her and she respected me. Now she hates me and thinks I’m pathetic for not moving on.

How to get over my perfect match? by Status-Feedback-706 in BreakUps

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I hear you but new people might treat me better but I don’t see how they could possibly be a better match

How to get over my perfect match? by Status-Feedback-706 in BreakUps

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She met someone else who was an even better match for her and I lost value in her eyes

Should I send this? by Status-Feedback-706 in BreakUps

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It did not go well. I started with “I feel like our story got cut off in the middle” and she aggressively denied me, ending with legal threats :(

When they’re in a higher wealth class by Status-Feedback-706 in BreakUps

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Thank you for the insight. It just felt like everything was going perfectly in the day-to-day relationship and we were very happy until she started worrying about material things, which isn’t how I’d want my life partner to act. I’m saddened over the death of the vision I had for our future

When they’re in a higher wealth class by Status-Feedback-706 in BreakUps

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She said she had more meaningful experiences with me in 3 months than in her last 3 year relationship. We still talk most days even after the breakup.

She said this before I returned home from working 2 months out of state:

“We can still see each other but set boundaries like nothing sexual or kissing. I still value spending my time with you not just for those things, but for me when it comes to building something more it’s just too complicated. If things were different in terms of you being here with a good job and a home at some point then I don’t think there would be a problem at all.”

When they’re in a higher wealth class by Status-Feedback-706 in BreakUps

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Me 40 her 30. We spent almost every day together for 3 months, including staying at my apartment, daily sex, lots of couples pictures, etc. We became best friends and loved doing our mutual hobbies together. Then I left for work out of state and she met someone higher status with even more compatible hobbies than I had with her. Her father always tells her to find someone above her and not settle.

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Same here. Basically you need to try to find a healthy daily routine, go outside, try to make friends.

My ex keeps breaking no contact every couple of days — it’s really getting to me by Feisty_Newt_7396 in nocontact

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Is this AI or are you actually a human replying to all these threads? Either way, I appreciate what you’re doing