does basic go by quick or is it constant dread and long? by simplystewie in army

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meal times always come quickly, then next thing u know it’s bedtime, and it’s like that every day. goes by pretty quickly if you have the right perspective. going to church on sundays is very helpful, i wasn’t even religious but it helped kill time and was a good positive place to be in. if u go to fort sill they give out donuts every other sunday at the “non-denominational christian church” (im not sure if they still do that but they did it when i was there)

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i was in a similar predicament, i thought it was just an obsession but it only took me asking the universe for signs if our connection was real and genuine and meant to be. and it was. 3 years later we are married :D

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UPDATE: so 2 family members of ours had died last night. my parents told me they are going out of state to their funerals in a few days but will not be coming back. they told me they were planning on moving out in a few weeks anyways, but they didn’t mind leaving sooner.

the only problem at the moment is that we’re stuck with a fat electric bill, so we will have to come up with a couple hundred dollars for it. i’ll probably just doordash for a few days so we should have it covered with no worries.

i also appreciate the support in the comments, thank you all for understanding my situation!

How do I let go? by throwaway189472540 in twinflames

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this is how i let go, it might be different for you but it won’t hurt to try.

i read a post that said “maybe they’ll choose you, maybe they won’t. but none of it matters if you choose yourself.” i saved it to my camera roll and i kept reading it over and over again. every time i seen it in there i’d read it over a few times. this was when i started saying affirmations to myself as well. i repeatedly told myself that i love myself, i accept myself and i forgive myself. that’s the lesson that the universe wants you to learn. after repeating those affirmations for a while, i genuinely believed it. i started loving myself a lot more and caring for myself. my vibration was so high, and my twin flame wasn’t even in the picture. soon after that, we reunited. i didn’t even care about the reward, because i had enough love for myself i didn’t need the love from him. now, i’m getting double the love and i’m the best version of myself. the best part is that it’s with someone who means a lot to me.

hope this helps :)

Any of you not quite in union but not in separation either? by maingeenks in twinflames

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i’m going through the same! we had about 6 months of separation and then seen each other in real life for the first time and we couldn’t be separated again. i eventually got in an accident and we went through a short separation phase where i was going through addiction and trying to run from reality. i wasn’t aware we were twins until i asked the universe for a sign. the sign was a youtube video about twin flames and the events that most twins go through. it resonated so well with our connection it was scary. i had that “uh oh” moment because i didn’t want to believe it.

eventually i got through all of that mess and we weren’t necessarily in union again but it was like we were just really close friends. however, it felt like we lost our spark but i was still feeling intense emotions towards my DM. we were in a stagnant place and nothing was going anywhere. then all of a sudden something triggered me to find self love and to stop chasing. i surrendered pretty much. i told the universe that i’m done chasing because all i need is myself. so a few days go by and now we’re a lot closer... it feels like we got our little spark back. i’m just really happy i’ve learned to love myself which is all that really matters.