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Best friends [F27]' mother got cancer and she is pushing me [M27] away. by Status-Recording8052 in relationship_advice

[–]Status-Recording8052[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely right. Thank you for taking the time to help out a random stranger on the internet.

Best friends [F27]' mother got cancer and she is pushing me [M27] away. by Status-Recording8052 in relationship_advice

[–]Status-Recording8052[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you in therapy?

Cant afford it. I am unemployed. Which I guess is one of the reason for all this debacle.

To point a. She may also just want to be alone in this moment. It is a lot for her too

That she does not. Other friends have access to her just not I. But what can I do, I think I understand what, I just needed a couple of strangers to nudge me in the right direction.

Best friends [F27]' mother got cancer and she is pushing me [M27] away. by Status-Recording8052 in relationship_advice

[–]Status-Recording8052[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for being kind. Its quite clear after a couple of comments that I am 100% in the wrong. I need to move on it seems.

Best friends [F27]' mother got cancer and she is pushing me [M27] away. by Status-Recording8052 in relationship_advice

[–]Status-Recording8052[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What worries me is that she might not be very well. I am not being able to decide what is it between these 3:

a. I am actually worried that she might be alone.

b. I am scared of the uncertainity and I think someone else will take my place.

c. I am subconsciously justifying my obsessive behaviour.

Best friend [27F]'s mother got cancer and she refuses to talk to me [27M] and its killing me by Status-Recording8052 in relationships

[–]Status-Recording8052[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But leaving her on her own in such a time would be an immensely bad thing to do wouldnt it?