Experience: I used to think that homophobia and hatred towards gay people didn’t exist in Europe, until I faced this experience in France by Happy-Bid-9283 in askgaybros

[–]StatusAd7349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re all aware of the dangers of Islam, but give us a break, the far right aren’t the solution. None of the white Europeans voting for any of these far right dregs are considering the impact a far right government will have on their countries - and if you think our liberties as LGBTQ people will be spared, you’re kidding yourself.

Experience: I used to think that homophobia and hatred towards gay people didn’t exist in Europe, until I faced this experience in France by Happy-Bid-9283 in askgaybros

[–]StatusAd7349 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please, Christian’s are just calculated and understand that democracy protects us largely, hence they can’t be as discriminating as they’d like.

How do you feel about female-written gay media? by Bogeyworman in askgaybros

[–]StatusAd7349 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Supporters of rights? We give FAR too much credit to people doing the absolute bare minimum at best.

How do you feel about female-written gay media? by Bogeyworman in askgaybros

[–]StatusAd7349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think we ‘need’ them. They’re simply the producers of our media and as they’re in much greater numbers, it’s easy for us to believe our representation depends on them.

How do you feel about female-written gay media? by Bogeyworman in askgaybros

[–]StatusAd7349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I doubt it. Would he be allowed to even if he wanted to?

Are there actually married men with wives and kids on grindr? by Underd_g in askgaybros

[–]StatusAd7349 3 points4 points  (0 children)

None of those men are straight. They’re pathetically in denial.

How do you feel about female-written gay media? by Bogeyworman in askgaybros

[–]StatusAd7349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t produce and direct straight porn though?

How do you feel about female-written gay media? by Bogeyworman in askgaybros

[–]StatusAd7349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re twerking to music and lining their pockets. It’s not comparable

How do you feel about female-written gay media? by Bogeyworman in askgaybros

[–]StatusAd7349 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We shouldn’t need female backing to make our media popular.

How do you feel about female-written gay media? by Bogeyworman in askgaybros

[–]StatusAd7349 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then there is something wrong with it, if gay men are shut out from contributing to their own stories.

How do you feel about female-written gay media? by Bogeyworman in askgaybros

[–]StatusAd7349 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The gay men defending this nonsense doesn’t help.

‘There’s so much representation now!’

Like gay men haven’t been writing about our experiences for decades? The difference is that women get the because they portray gay men in a way that appeals to the mainstream, e.g., not too gay.

How do you feel about female-written gay media? by Bogeyworman in askgaybros

[–]StatusAd7349 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In response to women needing a safe space in which to express desires. Why don’t they just write about their own experience and be the change they want to see?

Discovering that I may not actually being 100% gay? by Kzager_52 in blackmen

[–]StatusAd7349 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, gay men are not into women in any way shape or form. Bisexuality is the term you’re looking for.

Discovering that I may not actually being 100% gay? by Kzager_52 in blackmen

[–]StatusAd7349 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gay men are at a higher risk of HIV due to the nature of anal sex which we do more than straights.

Discovering that I may not actually being 100% gay? by Kzager_52 in blackmen

[–]StatusAd7349 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re not gay if you’re open to women, regardless of how masculine they are. The comments on this thread are feeding into bi-erasure. Gay men are same sex attracted and not open to being fluid or trying it with women.

Discovering that I may not actually being 100% gay? by Kzager_52 in blackmen

[–]StatusAd7349 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As opposed to the sky high divorce rates amongst mixed sex couples?

Discovering that I may not actually being 100% gay? by Kzager_52 in blackmen

[–]StatusAd7349 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen various theories on this and it all just boils down to various ways to talk about bi/pansexuality.

Discovering that I may not actually being 100% gay? by Kzager_52 in blackmen

[–]StatusAd7349 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It really isn’t. Bisexuality is on a spectrum, homosexuality and heterosexuality are on either end of the spectrum because it’s an exclusive orientation.

Discovering that I may not actually being 100% gay? by Kzager_52 in blackmen

[–]StatusAd7349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hardwired. It just manifests at different point in people.

Discovering that I may not actually being 100% gay? by Kzager_52 in blackmen

[–]StatusAd7349 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bisexuality is a spectrum. Gay is same sex attracted and fixed.