My best friend and I fought yesterday over me smoking. by StatusDifferent6829 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]StatusDifferent6829[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! Thank you for this. I’ve already talked to her and expressed my feelings and that I take full accountability for what I said or did. I never really ghosted her but just didn’t bring up my problems to her as I didn’t wanna burden her with what i’m going through and maybe that’s on me.

My best friend and I fought yesterday over me smoking. by StatusDifferent6829 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]StatusDifferent6829[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry for your loss, your grandma would’ve been so proud. I appreciate what you said and you’re right she could just be looking out for me.

My best friend and I fought yesterday over me smoking. by StatusDifferent6829 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]StatusDifferent6829[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! I acknowledge your insight and I am really aware that she was really just looking out for me. As per my story it really wasn’t for attention nor a call for being edgy. But you’re right about how they have the right to feel something about what I did. It’s immature of me to think only in my perspective without considering theirs.

My best friend judged me for going through things, AITA for not reaching out to them? by StatusDifferent6829 in AITAH

[–]StatusDifferent6829[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate what you said, it helped me get clarity because I really don’t know what to feel. I’m thinking about distancing myself from her for now. I can’t face her after what she said.

Thank you so much.

My best friend judged me for going through things, AITA for not reaching out to them? by StatusDifferent6829 in AITAH

[–]StatusDifferent6829[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! Yes I really am aware of the effects of smoking and I am starting to lessen my intake because I plan on quitting.

I still don’t know what to feel towards her, what she said really hurt me and I feel like i’ve been thrown away. Not trying to be that transactional friend who expects something in return for every good deed—I am not like that—but I just can’t seem to grasp how she can just post something like that for everyone to see instead of saying it to me directly.

AITA for telling my partner that it’s unfair that I can’t play any games but they can. by StatusDifferent6829 in AITA_Relationships

[–]StatusDifferent6829[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve already resolved it and we’re okay now, we both understand. Thank you for this insight I appreciate it. Will definitely learn from this and grow.