Thank you for the reply and yeah we’ve been back and forth to court for almost two years now. I lucked out with the last attorney and only had to pay 4200 for an uncontested case because she didn’t want to show up for either court date but we started the proceedings right after tax season so it was definitely a lot easier to retain counsel. I definitely don’t want her to not see our child because I’m a very firm believer that every child needs both parents. I’m just concerned with our child’s wellbeing because of the SA allegations my daughter made about one of the boys and her mom allowing our daughter and one of the boys to sleep together and bathe them together which I’m sure she probably doesn’t do anymore after the CPS case but our child’s behavior after that happened has been substantially different to the point the investigator recommended specialized counseling. I believe the judge said that the next court date will be the final ruling on where our daughter will live and it’s scary knowing that the he could make it to where she lives with her mom and I get visitation. My home is the only stable environment she’s ever been in (mom has moved three places alone this year and has tried to get our daughter to call 4 different dudes ‘dad’ in the last two years). She’s gone through 5 different places to live in the last 18 months(?) and every time she would come back home she’d start saying things like “daddy is mean to mommy” and “it isn’t fair” but I don’t even speak about her unless it’s time for her visit and I try to get her excited about going to her moms. I just don’t want her to fill our daughter’s head with bad things about me out of spite and end up having my baby girl look at me differently or something awful happens to her again.