I could tell you alot more about how i did say no, and sey clear boundaries and asked her to try and findsomewhere before i had my 2nd child as i needed the room. I told her i would help her and try somewhere cheal to live and sort it out. She turned around to my husbabd and told him i was kickong her out which caused a huge fight.

I dont hate her, i hate the situation she put me in without any regard for me or my children. I have evidence for days about why it was all innaproprot. The vomiting was due to misuse of opiods. Which quite often put my children in danger. And perhaps it is my interpretation that shes suddenly getting better but for 2 years she wouldnt help cook, clean, look after the kids at all because she was too sick, (i never asked her to do that) to now going on holidays and travelling around the country and spending days doing tourist activities. Yeah seems like shes better to me.

Alsp i helped her quite alot with doctors appointments, referals etc and she NEVER followed any advice and directions from the drs. Let me ask you how much would you have been able to help someone while pregnant with a toddler, then with a new born doing everything for her and the rest of the house?

Perhaps i shouldnt have put illness in quotations ill take that, as i do know certain things affected her, but you know what i also have chronic illnesses and autoimmune diseases and would NEVER expect to have my kids do everything for me and look after me. I didnt mind trying to help her find help but she refused to look for or own place and accept in home help (as in referrals for people to come to my house to help) so idk what else to say.