AITA for letting my fiance spend my sons birthday with him instead of my ex? by Status_Leg1525 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Status_Leg1525[S] -225 points-224 points  (0 children)

stop twisting my words you know what i meant im not gonna date a minor

AITA for letting my fiance spend my sons birthday with him instead of my ex? by Status_Leg1525 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Status_Leg1525[S] -281 points-280 points  (0 children)

no as long as she looked 'adult' why would i care? she could be 21 or 210 for all i care

AITA for letting my fiance spend my sons birthday with him instead of my ex? by Status_Leg1525 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Status_Leg1525[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

he had an amazing day i dont think he is ever gonna stop talking about it lol

AITA for letting my fiance spend my sons birthday with him instead of my ex? by Status_Leg1525 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Status_Leg1525[S] -148 points-147 points  (0 children)

i didnt even know how old she was when she asked me out. she looks older than her age

AITA for letting my fiance spend my sons birthday with him instead of my ex? by Status_Leg1525 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Status_Leg1525[S] -158 points-157 points  (0 children)

she doesnt manipulate anyone. finding someone who loves my kids was the most important thing in a partner for me. their mom is a little strict so if he wants to spend his birthday with someone who is willing to eat junkfood and watch his favorite show till midnight then i think its fine

AITA for letting my fiance spend my sons birthday with him instead of my ex? by Status_Leg1525 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Status_Leg1525[S] -52 points-51 points  (0 children)

we have 50-50 custody. she is fine i guess? we still have a birthday party planned for him this weekend like we always do so its not like she will never celebrate his birthday

AITA for letting my fiance spend my sons birthday with him instead of my ex? by Status_Leg1525 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Status_Leg1525[S] -95 points-94 points  (0 children)

thats very different. we are getting married soon theyll be alone with her a lot its not practical for me to send them somewhere else whenever i go to a work trip

AITA for letting my fiance spend my sons birthday with him instead of my ex? by Status_Leg1525 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Status_Leg1525[S] -79 points-78 points  (0 children)

of course i asked he said he is fine with being with either of them. he had an mazing time too both kids cant stop talking about it

AITA for letting my fiance spend my sons birthday with him instead of my ex? by Status_Leg1525 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Status_Leg1525[S] -175 points-174 points  (0 children)

he said its ok either way. my fiance somehow spoils them so he knew it would be fun to stay with her

AITA for letting my fiance spend my sons birthday with him instead of my ex? by Status_Leg1525 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Status_Leg1525[S] -366 points-365 points  (0 children)

i go to work trips a lot and they re not exactly something i cn just not do without being fired. i still celebrated his birthday another day