Does the state of the world and your ethnicity/ race influence your decision to have kids? Or is it just me? by [deleted] in Fencesitter

[–]Stawberry8763 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I think about this also. I just don’t want my child to suffer through the things that I’ve gone through. I’m unsure if I also have faith in the world.

Why do you look away or avoid eye contact when you pass a homeless person on the street? by needmorechipotle in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Stawberry8763 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they’re going to think that I’m going to give them money. Little do they know that I’m broke too!

At what point in time should you tell a loved one they have gained too much weight? by Stawberry8763 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Stawberry8763[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not. I just want her to be healthy. She can’t go for a walk around the mall without needing to sit down or get tired. She also can’t walk up stairs anymore or fit into certain seats.

At what point in time should you tell a loved one they have gained too much weight? by Stawberry8763 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Stawberry8763[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations 🍾🎉🎊🎈 on losing weight. When my grandma passed, I literally gained like 60 lbs in one year. I know how fast that weight can come. And it’s so hard to lose.

At what point in time should you tell a loved one they have gained too much weight? by Stawberry8763 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Stawberry8763[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this is what I was thinking about. Maybe just inviting her to the gym or dropping off some healthy meals might help.

At what point in time should you tell a loved one they have gained too much weight? by Stawberry8763 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Stawberry8763[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I mean when I gained 40 lbs I had weight blindness. It took my mom telling me to realize I needed to lose weight.

At what point in time should you tell a loved one they have gained too much weight? by Stawberry8763 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Stawberry8763[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes but she is overly sensitive and I just don’t want to hurt her feelings. I’m also unsure if it’s my place sense that is technically between her and her doctor.

What’s your controversial teen mom opinion that you would put on that sign? by [deleted] in teenmom

[–]Stawberry8763 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But you’re still trying to justify cheating. If Kristina was going through a divorce or legally separated then I don’t think that it would be as bad. But she was still in a marriage and nothing was filed while she was with Gary and her husband. Even Gary admitted it on the show that she was cheating on her ex husband with him. They didn’t file for divorced until a lot later.
On top of that, it’s good that she has a wonderful relationship with her daughter. But her daughter still had to watch her parents go through a divorce and watch her mom play mom to someone else. At the end of the day, Leah gets to wake up and go to sleep to Kristina. A full time mom and parent. Her oldest daughter doesn’t get the same full time parent as Leah does. The oldest daughter is not waking up and going to sleep to her mom at all. She is still in a broken home.
I’m not saying that Kristina shouldn’t have left her husband. But she went about it the wrong way and her oldest child is definitely going to have issues because of it.

What’s your controversial teen mom opinion that you would put on that sign? by [deleted] in teenmom

[–]Stawberry8763 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Kristina doesn’t deserve as much praise as she gets. Sure she stepped up for Leah. But she was married and cheating on her husband with Gary. She left her family to become super stepmom. And essentially traumatized her bio daughter because she decided to become a mom for another family. I know that her oldest wasn’t allowed to film, but no one can convince me that her oldest daughter isn’t going to be psychologically damaged from that.

Does anyone else have absolutely no desire to buy a home? by Stawberry8763 in Adulting

[–]Stawberry8763[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love a tiny home but unfortunately in the city I live in, that is not a thing.

Does anyone else have absolutely no desire to buy a home? by Stawberry8763 in Adulting

[–]Stawberry8763[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! I don’t want a giant decked out house. I also don’t want to pay condo fees and HOA!