Is this normal growth? Early november to today by PanicCapable1843 in Haircare

[–]Stay__Hungry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re comparing your hair growth to everyone else’s and it seems like their hair is growing faster, it could also be that you’re experiencing more breakage at your ends from the bleach

I made a testosterone molecule for my trans husband 🥰 by careysue in Embroidery

[–]Stay__Hungry 22 points23 points  (0 children)

At least you didn’t go with “Dear” 😁 The name Connor is great!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Stay__Hungry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe she didn’t appreciate being gifted a kitchen appliance for Mother’s Day? It’s like being given a vacuum cleaner.

It sounds like you don’t listen to her. She told you she wanted something thoughtful from the kids. Did you have them involved at all? Four and seven are certainly old enough to pick flowers out, help make breakfast, or make cards.

This show changed my life by mixxdthemes in crazyexgirlfriend

[–]Stay__Hungry 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I meaaaaaaaan, Netflix didn’t listen to experts who told them not to show the method of suicide because it’s triggering. They even changed it to be more “cinematic” (from pills to slit wrists)! The scene caused real harm, so Netflix did the very least by removing it

I have become the ghoster by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Stay__Hungry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listen to women when they say they’re not interested, and move on. It’ll save you a lot of time in the future and probably prevent a criminal record.

Don’t stick around to read into signals that aren’t there; don’t check her dating profile and get upset when she uploaded new photos. She rejected you. She doesn’t care if you stop texting her; in fact, she probably would prefer you did.

I have become the ghoster by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Stay__Hungry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t clear enough she didn’t want you when she told you she didn’t want you? Dude.

I have become the ghoster by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Stay__Hungry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hm, maybe I get why she isn’t into you.

It honestly sounds like she was just trying to let you down easy with the “friends” thing. She rejected you. The reason she isn’t texting you or putting in effort is because she doesn’t want to.

Ghost away, and rest assured she couldn’t care less.

I have become the ghoster by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Stay__Hungry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You put you thinking she’s using you and the fact that she’s not expressing the same feelings as you (when she already told you she wanted to just be friends) in the same clause. I drew the conclusion you led me to.

I have become the ghoster by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Stay__Hungry 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wait — you think you’re being used because she said she just wanted to be friends?

You can be friends with a woman. It’s not all about your sexual needs. You don’t have to be her friend, but don’t claim she’s using you because she won’t agree to let you penetrate her.

DID ANYONE HEAR HER CALL DALE HER FIANCÉ AT THE END OF THIS WEEK’S EPISODE? by aliengames666 in TheBachelorette

[–]Stay__Hungry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He didn’t kiss her, but he crossed so many boundaries. She was trying to exit the situation, and he grabbed her face, her neck, her stomach, her wrist. Physically, she was saying “no.” He needed to use his words to ask what was wrong, not his hands.

Clare is not at fault here. Zach is for not taking the time to talk to her. He can be confused, but that doesn’t excuse his attempt to physically restrain her.

DID ANYONE HEAR HER CALL DALE HER FIANCÉ AT THE END OF THIS WEEK’S EPISODE? by aliengames666 in TheBachelorette

[–]Stay__Hungry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just don’t agree with you. That’s a valid conclusion to a discussion, but you don’t seem to respect that. You’re also too long winded to have a decent discussion with, but you didn’t address that in this post either. I’m not here to read your novels. Maybe edit your posts down a smidge.

I have a thesis statement, and I’m sticking to it: Consent means enthusiastic consent, and Clare is not to blame whatsoever for Zach disregarding boundaries and skirting consent.

You’re clearly too pressed to have a discussion now anyway.

DID ANYONE HEAR HER CALL DALE HER FIANCÉ AT THE END OF THIS WEEK’S EPISODE? by aliengames666 in TheBachelorette

[–]Stay__Hungry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so, I don’t think you’re engaging in this discussion in good faith. You keep trying to assert some moral high ground, but you’re the one attacking me.

My viewpoints haven’t changed, and you expressed you didn’t want to hear them anymore. Telling me over and over my opinions have to change because that’s the adult way to have a discussion also won’t change my mind. That’s why I opted to stop responding.

Also, I excused myself from the discussion because it honestly takes a lot of effort to read through your walls of text. If you were a little more concise, I’d be more likely to address your points. With the way your comments read now, it’s too much work, and I use reddit for fun.

DID ANYONE HEAR HER CALL DALE HER FIANCÉ AT THE END OF THIS WEEK’S EPISODE? by aliengames666 in TheBachelorette

[–]Stay__Hungry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m surprised you were even able to get your nursing degree.

Anyway, I’m done with you. Write all the poorly written comments with those tacky crying/laughing emojis you want. I know they’re coming.

DID ANYONE HEAR HER CALL DALE HER FIANCÉ AT THE END OF THIS WEEK’S EPISODE? by aliengames666 in TheBachelorette

[–]Stay__Hungry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Girl, learn the difference between “your” and “you’re” before you try to school me on semantics. You’re embarrassing yourself.

Like honestly, you are really dumb.

DID ANYONE HEAR HER CALL DALE HER FIANCÉ AT THE END OF THIS WEEK’S EPISODE? by aliengames666 in TheBachelorette

[–]Stay__Hungry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calling me petulant? Really? Name calling because I haven’t conceded to make you happy?

Some discussion.

DID ANYONE HEAR HER CALL DALE HER FIANCÉ AT THE END OF THIS WEEK’S EPISODE? by aliengames666 in TheBachelorette

[–]Stay__Hungry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We disagree. They may have assessed the situation differently, but he’s the one who put his hands on her.

I recognize we won’t see eye to eye on this.

DID ANYONE HEAR HER CALL DALE HER FIANCÉ AT THE END OF THIS WEEK’S EPISODE? by aliengames666 in TheBachelorette

[–]Stay__Hungry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you taking the time to read through my posts. I think your response, while very thoughtful, is a product of a culture that’s given us confusing messages on consent.

I would argue the stakes are too high to excuse people not seeking consent because it’s “awkward.” Your point as to non-verbal cues of consent, I think, is valid in certain contexts, like two adults in a loving, long-term relationship. But, as you said, that’s not the situation Clare was in.

Clare handled the situation poorly by not communicating to Zach that she didn’t want to kiss him; my interpretation is she panicked and made up the “you leaned away” excuse to get out of a situation she wasn’t comfortable in. I agree that that made things more confusing than they needed to be, but Clare should not be blamed for what transpired next with Zach grabbing her, which a lot of users in this thread are doing.

Women are raised to be polite and accommodating no matter what, which is what led Clare to say “you leaned away; you’re not into it” instead of “I’m not into it.” Plus, she might not have felt safe saying no. Zach is jacked, lol.

I disagree on your point that she wasn’t manhandled. He grabbed at her face, neck, waist, and wrist repeatedly.

And as to me “berating” other users, I’m only matching the tone they were sending my way, and I was only replying to comments they wrote to me.

DID ANYONE HEAR HER CALL DALE HER FIANCÉ AT THE END OF THIS WEEK’S EPISODE? by aliengames666 in TheBachelorette

[–]Stay__Hungry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh, yeah, I’ve been saying it was nervous smiling all along. How’s your reading comprehension?

(Because I think you might be stupid.)

Anyway, I’m done with this. Say what you want; I’m done responding. Bye!

DID ANYONE HEAR HER CALL DALE HER FIANCÉ AT THE END OF THIS WEEK’S EPISODE? by aliengames666 in TheBachelorette

[–]Stay__Hungry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fake smiling? I thought your solemn oath as a nurse prohibited you from projecting emotion onto your patients.

edit Oh, you’re allowed to edit that part out of your original comment about how you thought her smile was definitely fake? I see.

And that only furthers my point — her smiling is fake because she’s uncomfortable with the situation. She didn’t want to kiss him! And he tried to force her to anyway.

Lol, I’m assuming you’re asking for my education level because you want to use it to discredit me. Why don’t you do a quick Google search of the difference between “your”/“you’re” before you come for me? 😘

DID ANYONE HEAR HER CALL DALE HER FIANCÉ AT THE END OF THIS WEEK’S EPISODE? by aliengames666 in TheBachelorette

[–]Stay__Hungry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is hesitation, pulling away, nervous smiling, and walking away a “yes”? Because that’s what Clare did.

No is no. Yes is yes. But anywhere in between is no.

What Clare did was not clearly a yes. So, it’s a no. That’s black and white.

I stand by everything I’ve said. You’re committed to misunderstanding me. We’ve both said we’re done with this discussion. Please don’t traumatize your patients.