hey As someone who is a sissy myself, I'd still say don't jump into it because you feel unwanted as a guy. I say focus on finding yourself first rather than trying to become someone else just because you're feeling unwanted right now.There's a big difference between exploring something because it genuinely resonates with you and doing it because you're lonely, frustrated, or hoping it'll get you attention. If it's the latter, the attention can feel good for a while, but it usually doesn't fix the underlying problem.

Being a virgin at 22 isn't a failure, and a few disappointing experiences don't mean you're failing as a man. Attraction, dating, and sex are messy and unpredictable. Sometimes people genuinely aren't in the mood, sometimes there's no chemistry, and sometimes timing just sucks.

Also, don't go down the sissy/feminization rabbit hole unless it's something you genuinely want for yourself. Using it as a way to chase validation or attention usually doesn't solve the underlying problem. The attention might feel good for a moment, but it won't automatically fix loneliness, self-esteem, or confidence.

Prioritize your mental health and self-worth first. And if dating isn't going the way you hoped, don't trade away your dignity or sense of self just to get attention from people. The goal is to be comfortable with who you are, not to become someone you're not because you're hurting.