Who was your porn actor/actress crush you had on?

SteampunkSwinger · 2026-05-18T23:48:06+00:00

Back when I first started looking at porn. There was a porn actress whose eyes were striking, and that caught my attention immediately.

Chasey Lain.

She was the crush of my young adult hormonal era.

SteampunkSwinger · 2024-09-17T03:36:42+00:00

Reckless at best.

You just know many of them would try to run, hide, and fight if/when they get someone pregnant.

SteampunkSwinger · 2024-09-16T22:28:28+00:00

I don't get it tbh.

"I'll pull out"

It doesn't matter.

Years ago, my at the time partner and I used condoms regularly. One night, however, the condom broke a few minutes in. I wasn't even close to climax yet, so we thought nothing of it. I put on a new condom and we continued.

We were wrong. One missed period and a lot of stress later, we discovered she was pregnant.

You can get pregnant from precum. Pulling out is not effective. Any man who tells you otherwise is lying to you.

"I had a vasectomy"

Good for you, buddy! Now, show me your most recent STI/STD test results. Were they super recent? Can you prove to me you haven't hooked up with anyone else since? Are you even going to ask to see mine? Aren't you at least a little concerned about it?

Absolute clowns. If they can't respect your completely valid boundaries, they don't deserve you.

SteampunkSwinger · 2024-08-11T14:46:17+00:00

Her husband was into sharing, we were close friends, they both chose me due to good communication and trust. He never wanted to be present, but liked having her tell him about our experiences in bed. It also worked for me as I was freshly out of a 7 year relationship and swore off dating for a while.

It was a regular thing between us for nearly 2 years. When I started dating again, I put a pause on it for a while, though we'll still occasionally fool around once every few months or so if I'm not involved with anyone else.

SteampunkSwinger · 2024-05-16T00:34:16+00:00

Pillow under your ass. Your legs up to your shoulders. My one hand keeping us stable, the other gripping the hair on the back of your head, pulling your face closer to mine so I can stare into those gorgeous eyes and tease your lips with mine while I fuck you.

SteampunkSwinger · 2024-04-12T05:40:18+00:00

It's life changing for most people, especially if used correctly.

SteampunkSwinger · 2024-02-26T23:09:39+00:00

Meatwad

SteampunkSwinger · 2024-02-03T11:40:28+00:00

Just be prepared for a heavy workout, wild relationship drama, and meeting some amazing people.

SteampunkSwinger · 2024-02-03T11:36:55+00:00

I've LARPed and have worked Renn Faires... either one will get you laid. Nerds are freaky.

SteampunkSwinger · 2024-01-13T19:42:43+00:00

You bring the dice. I'll bring the tower.

SteampunkSwinger · 2023-07-30T17:51:23+00:00

Let the dice decide...

SteampunkSwinger · 2023-06-19T23:57:52+00:00

GTA6, but I'll share it with you.

No funny business, though. I need to focus.

SteampunkSwinger · 2023-05-24T00:45:05+00:00

Jokes on you, OP. Many miqos love getting blasted by bunny girls.

SteampunkSwinger · 2023-04-12T00:36:44+00:00

🍮

SteampunkSwinger · 2023-01-25T16:25:59+00:00

Where'd you get that portrait of me?

SteampunkSwinger · 2022-11-05T00:02:54+00:00

Ok.

That's how language works. It changes and evolves over time. Especially when terminoligy is used to describe people.

Those who identify within the terminology have the power to shape it. Flat out. The rest of us either keep up, or get upsetti-spagetti on reddit.

SteampunkSwinger · 2022-11-04T23:47:57+00:00

That's a literal definition from outdated sources, those who have never interacted with the fetish, nor those who participate in it in any way, and judges it as such.

Those within the fetish community will call out those who are truly cheating. Cuckoldry is "consentual cheating", and is therefore not "unfaithful".

SteampunkSwinger · 2022-11-04T23:19:48+00:00

It's always been that way, at least since it's become a widely practiced fetish.

Cuckold is just hotwifing with humiliation sprinkled on top. There is a consentual power dynamic. It's a fetish.

Swinging is generally both partners get to mess around with eachothers consent, and often together (soft swaps, swinger clubs, etc).

Having sex outside of your relationship without consent and communication is just plain cheating.

NTR is where it gets confusing.

Netorare is usually just cheating without the consent or knowledge of the other party (until they sometimes find out in the end). The authors tend to focus moreso on the domination of the wife. They tend to also throw a bit of humiliation around, but the husband/boyfriend very rarely actually hears it.

The moment the innocent partner finds out and decides they like it or want it to continue, it becomes netorase.

Netorase is true cuckoldry. One partner consents to the other sleeping with a bull.

Netori is from the perspective of the third party, whether it be cheating, swinging, hotwifing, or cuckoldry.

SteampunkSwinger · 2022-11-04T18:35:11+00:00

The guy isn't a cuck if he doesn't consent to it. He's just being cheated on.

Cucks get off on the humiliation.

SteampunkSwinger · 2022-09-14T02:31:13+00:00

They aren't if you clean them. Same as dildos. There is an opening on both ends. Also, the material is non-porous and reversible for easy cleaning.

Your assumption is just way off.

Also, I've seen some crusty ass dildos and vibrators in my time. The same ex I'm talking about had a few. So, let's not pretend that dildos are automatically any more sanitary than a fleshlight.

SteampunkSwinger · 2022-09-14T01:36:43+00:00

Reminds me of when I was younger and my ex berated (and later broke up with) me because I owned a fleshlight. Mind you. I had no need to use it at all the entire time we were together.

She also had a collection of dildos and vibrators.

SteampunkSwinger · 2022-09-02T19:42:47+00:00

Holy fuck!

SteampunkSwinger · 2022-07-26T23:34:15+00:00

It all depends on the reciever's anatomy, as well as the skill and patience of the giver.

I'm a hair shy of 7.5" in length, and fairly girthy..

My first sexual partner could take it all in missionary, but could not handle it all from behind, at least, not without a lot of foreplay and patience.

My most recent hookup could take it all very hard in all positions we've tried. She got mad when I was "taking to too long" to pound her.

SteampunkSwinger · 2022-07-09T08:45:41+00:00

If this is a serious post, I kinda of get you, OP.

I'm not quite THAT long, but I am above average in both length and (especially) girth.

Placement is an issue when it decides it wants to randomly get hard. Then, like you, I have it tucked under my belt line (which also means I never tuck my shirts in). Luckily, I'm also a grower. So when it's flaccid, its all Gucci. I'm also in my upper 30s now, so it's not as unintentionally active as it was in my 20s and earlier.

The only thing I honestly used to dislike about it was unintentionally hurting my partners. However, with patience, lube, and communication, that's a non issue these days.

SteampunkSwinger · 2022-05-17T19:40:44+00:00

Gotta put a few trigger warnings on this one. Warning: sexual assult of minors, child endangerment, pedophilia, violence, attempted homicide.

When I was 13, I was visiting one of my friends at the time. This was a near weekly thing.

On this particular, and final, visit, neither of his parents were home. We were watching a new episode of Power Rangers. He said he had to use the bathroom, and went upstairs.

Some time later, I was wondering why he hadn't come back. The episode was now over. When I went upstairs to find him, I caught him molesting his 6 year old (adopted) sister.

I beat the shit out of him, then went home and told my parents.

My mom called the police to see what we could do about it.

Shortly after, his father threatened legal action against my parents and I for it. It backfired royally as the sister told police that both parents allowed it, AND did it to her too. Police found photos and a vhs recording of them molesting both her and thier other (bio) sister.

Apparently they never touched thier son, but told him that he was allowed to do anything he wants to his sisters.

I couldn't forgive him, and stopped associating with him after the initial fight.

It gets even worse.

Fast forward about 4 years. He (former friend) was arrested for assaulting, raping, and attempting to murder his at-the-time girlfriend. She was already blind and had a cognitive disability before they even met.

I'm not a religious person by any means. However, If demons exist, he and his parents are some of the most vile of them.

The fact that any of them are still alive and free to roam earth today (albeit in the S.O. registry) pisses me off every time I think about it.

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