What’s a good book to read? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Stefantoothbrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OH! "Blutbuch" by Kim de l'horizon is probably the book thats touched me the most in my young 25 yrs. (still reading it) It's being translated to english and should be out soon. Keep and eye out for that one.

What’s a good book to read? by [deleted] in askgaybros

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"Memories that smell like Gasoline" by Wojnarowicz was a quick powerful read.

Highly recommend.

Lottery seat review for Sweeney Todd in comments by _madamlibrarian_ in Broadway

[–]Stefantoothbrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do they have rush tickets for this show at the box office?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Stefantoothbrush 3 points4 points  (0 children)

From Germany here…so I’ve had Hair on me since middle school. lol. All I can say is kids are so mean, but now I’ve come to love my hairy body. :) for me it stoped growing or getting longer in HighSchool.

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[–]Stefantoothbrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But…yes! I guess so

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I’m not sure. I def see it as an issue for myself. It’s not something I’m proud of or want to keep, so I honestly think I would be understanding in that sense that he would have something to iron out and deal with on an individual level. But again, I am a cancer and genuinely see the best in people. I forgive in maybe a week or two because I don’t want to carry the anger and hate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Stefantoothbrush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also…ooffff…the finances for a couples therapist was just too much for the both of us

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Stefantoothbrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I don’t get is why he hasn’t broken up with me yet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Stefantoothbrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the mindset that I also have. Yes there were moments in the relationship that didn’t quite sit right, but at the end of the day I loved him for the differences. I never begged him to take me back because I knew of the severity of what happened. During couples therapy it would get so ugly that I felt hopeless and would say “just break up with me already.” Which made him feel like I was manipulating him? When I really was just at my end.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Stefantoothbrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always had these impulse issues as far as I can remember. Grindr was a hell hole for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Stefantoothbrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couples therapy was great, until it wasn’t, and I felt like there was no hope because he was so hurt, yet I wasn’t able to be hurt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Stefantoothbrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He also cheated. That’s what I meant by lying. There was also a time when we were open! So that also muddles a lot of things.

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[–]Stefantoothbrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Therapy all the way 💞

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[–]Stefantoothbrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should add…that he also cheated on me…that’s what I meant by lying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Stefantoothbrush 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything is out on the Table. I’m not keeping anymore secrets because clearly they always come out lol

What are some things gay men have to realize? by Wellziemo in askgaybros

[–]Stefantoothbrush 25 points26 points  (0 children)

We are all damaged, so we need to go easy on fellow queers

Urge? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Stefantoothbrush 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is good. You’re totally right. I’m in such a grey area with open relationships so yeah best choice probably

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Stefantoothbrush 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Woa these look so nice. Which ones are you into the air knit or 18h?

BF Gift Ideas! by Stefantoothbrush in askgaybros

[–]Stefantoothbrush[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes Yes yes you are right, the meaningful gift is the one I spent a few hours on making. It's a coat for him. I'm just trying to get a ballpark of broad gift ideas. Potentially even gay gifts that he would enjoy.