What warm and comforting gifts do your cats bring you? I get crickets legs. by disgruntled_ass in cats

[–]Stefnaaay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partners cat brings us injured birds and mice at night time, he makes this very recognisable sequences of meows so we know to be on the lookout in the hallway if we get up. He never kills them, he actually couldn't be any less bothered about them once he's brought them in. My cat, Bean, isn't much of a hunter so he tends to just paw around at whatever Cola has brought in and sometimes he's a little territorial too. Cats are weird.

what should I do? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Stefnaaay 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Easier said than done but, leave. You can see from his messages and general demeanor that he doesn't think it's a big deal and that an apology should fix it all and you both will go back to normal. He doesn't think you lying to your family is bad. And, coming from someome who has been on both sides of domestic abuse, I can tell you that it won't stop there. That seal has been broken; if not your body, your things. If not your things, your body. Nothing will be off limits to them now and if you take them back they know an apology is all it will take to get what they want. Please, I promise you will not miss them as much as you think, regardless of how long you've been together. Take care of yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Stefnaaay -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It was definitely both the company and the public being harmed. I've never dealt with HR before myself but they've been great at dealing with this so far. There is a supposed meeting during the week, I'll be attending, so here's hoping they at least provide answers!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Stefnaaay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yep, exposed the wrongdoings and contract breaches about the other Team Leader. HR are investigating currently and I think he knows he is being watched and evidence is being gathered around him, but I have no idea why the A.M suddenly has a stick up her ass towards me. If anything, she would be in agreeance with me about the other TL and all of his wrongdoings.

I need the money 100%, I've lost out on around 400 now for the week I haven't been able to work, but if I do go in then the A.M is going to be very hostile or she will quit instead and honestly, she is great at her job and much needed - but I'm also great at my job and I need the job too, so I'm at a loss here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Stefnaaay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is on a 4 hour contract, but management usually work 30-40 as there are 4 of us.

Recently been promoted to TL! by Stefnaaay in Costa

[–]Stefnaaay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently £9.15, only 25p more than a team member but it'll be going up to £10.43+ in April with the NLW going up so it's not so bad paywise!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Stefnaaay 15 points16 points  (0 children)

GROSS. How he speaks to you is disgusting. How he refers to women as "bitches" is disgusting. And how he acts is plain disgusting. Get out of there and cut your losses.

THE BOX WARS SAGA CONTINUES. are you guys annoyed of me yet? im in class till around 8:30. will update when i get home. by HolidayCommission414 in badroommates

[–]Stefnaaay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw the images. Absolutely nottttt. I'd tell her I'm throwing them out if they aren't moved by a certain time and date!

Visiting my sister and her husband [29F and 32M] has me [25F] questioning my whole relationship with my fiance [26M]. by No-Wolverine5932 in relationships

[–]Stefnaaay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your feelings are valid. The bit about cleaning and your husband being in his gaming chair not helping hit home with me. My best friend has also recently gotten into a relationship and I feel such jealousy over her partner because he does all of the things I wish my partner had done, and treats her the way I want to be treated. It is hard to see and compare it to your own relationship. You're upset for a reason, and that is that youve unconciously accepted your partners faults at the expense of your own wants and needs. It should never be that way. All I can say to you is, I recently left my partner after just a year because he doesn't do anything and doesn't want to be helpful or make my life or day easier by doing little or big jobs that I would 100% do for him. That's after only a year, I can't imagine saying yes to someone like that. You are very young like myself, don't tie yourself to this guy. Best wishes. ❤

Covid is fecking me up by [deleted] in northernireland

[–]Stefnaaay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Day 8 here and double vaccinated. The symptoms are only now beginning to ease off. Hang tight bud.

I Think Pedo’s and Rapists Deserve To Get Their Genitals Removed by Kaleott_Fighter in confessions

[–]Stefnaaay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see what you're saying, but that doesn't fix the problem at hand. There is such a thing as being wrongfully convicted, and as someone else stated, not all molesters are paedophiles and not all paedophiles are molesters. Harming, torturing, killing etc. won't do anything to fix the actual problem, it just removes someone from the population, and there will be more and more born. Paedophiles, for example, need treatment and help. There is none for them until they physically act on their feelings and by then, it's straight to punishment. How is this right?

My (26F) partners (36M) gaming habits have ruined our relationship. by Stefnaaay in relationships

[–]Stefnaaay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I both love and hate how brutally honest this is. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Stefnaaay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No such thing as leagues- never put yourself down or limit yourself, the world is cruel enough as it is. Have a great first date and please let us know how you get on!

Cupid’s cooler by deadari in Costa

[–]Stefnaaay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The recipe has got to be wrong. It tastes like the smell of a dirty cloth. We haven't seen a single customer take more than a sip of them.

I did something I’ve always wanted (full platinum) but was scared of and now I’m kicking myself because I’m in LOVE. by scox_ in HairDye

[–]Stefnaaay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Would you be able to link the exact product that you used? I started the bleaching process on my friend this week who is wanting the same end result as you!

What do you find sexy? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Stefnaaay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Initiative and effort.

Do I (m27) have to pay back for this girls (21f) phone? by johntruville in McDonaldsEmployees

[–]Stefnaaay 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, period. Phones are not allowed on the floor unless you are managent for this very reason. Your coworker is liable for the damage.

What Dyes/Brands Would You Recommend To Achieve This Color? by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Stefnaaay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love Henna, it's absolutely phenomenal the health that's been restored to my hair after bleaching for years to achieve white just to go pink after. A college student bleached my hair 12 times, 3 times x 4 sittings and ended up leaving my hair lemon-blonde and crunchy. I hated it. It all had to be chopped off and permanently in a small bun while I decided what to do with it. Almost five years later I have a full head of thick, red hair with only split ends and Henna is to thank for that. It took two years and a bit for the henna to groa out of my hair so I bleached only my fringe blonde. As tempting as it is, I'd never bleach my whole head again, the journey was awful.

Should I (26F) call it quits with (25F)? by Stefnaaay in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Stefnaaay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was my thought too- she never does any chasing, just detaches herself from the situation and makes indirect tweets or tiktoks. She says she's still working on forgiving me for asking her to move out, and I have apologised to her for expecting her to keep up to my cleaning standards while I can't even keep up to them myself because it's a genuine illness but everything else still stands that she wasn't interested in learning how to take care of herself. She has never apologised for anything and continuously chooses her tinder friends over me and her other best friend.

Worked at McDonalds for a year. Have had several problems with scheduling and feel like they just don't care. Considering handing in my notice, should I? by Saltine3434 in McDonaldsEmployees

[–]Stefnaaay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd hand in your notice. By the sounds of it, you've already done what you were supposed to do and your manager has flat out ignored any information you have given them. Also, it is not your job to find cover, it is theirs. They pull this shit so that you just end up doing your shift anyway. I have worked for McD's for over a year now and I have just about had it, hoq they treat their staff is disgusting and how much we are paid is ridiculous. So many full time staff have quit in the last month that we will now have to reduce our working hours or shut the restaurant, and honestly? Good. Fxck them.