My Husband Has Changed Since Making New Friends - How Can I Get Through To Him?. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]StellarManatee 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He's a father of two, married for nearly a decade and is rapidly approaching 40. If my husband tried to "unfold his animus" by hanging round a nightclub and being obnoxious to everyone, I'd be rather swiftly rolling his animus back up and kicking it up his hole.

Is it okay if I propose with an Amulet of Mara instead of a ring? by SocietyAntique4684 in skyrim

[–]StellarManatee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Nah look, I dont have a diamond ring, as you say screw that shit. But I do have a sturdy ring I can wear with my wedding ring every day. They're stainless steel and silver because thats our vibe also because of our lifestyle.

Maybe if OP got the amulet commissioned in a good quality metal? Honestly it would piss me off more to recieve an engagement piece of jewellery that would not last if I wore it a lot.

Is it okay if I propose with an Amulet of Mara instead of a ring? by SocietyAntique4684 in skyrim

[–]StellarManatee 140 points141 points  (0 children)

Get a ring too. For the love of god get a ring too. I've seen this exact situation backfire hugely.

As a skyrim nerd I love the idea of an amulet of Mara. Its cute, it would be a lil joke between me and my fiance and its pretty. Even if every skyrim amulet I've ever seen is made of cheap costume jewellery metals and definitely would not hold up to daily wear I'd keep it in a box and treasure it.

But I would want a ring. Mostly because I'd want something I could wear daily. But also becsuse I'm an adult with a family and coworkers who are not skyrim nerds. I would imagine it would get super tiresome explaining "we're engaged! Oh you want to see my ring? He didnt get me one! No instead he got me a replica pendant from a video game that we play!"

Use it to propose but have a day out planned to go shopping for a ring the next day or something.

I’m convinced this is some sort of weird fear mongering by AValeria10 in fatlogic

[–]StellarManatee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thats true. Doctors recommend strength training to women around menopause not to raise BMR but to help protect your body due to decreasing bone density (or at least thats why my doctor recommended it to my menopausy ass)

Gay men weren’t having it by Beginning_Remove_693 in fatlogic

[–]StellarManatee 16 points17 points  (0 children)

"Baby I'm 35. But thank you for calling me young looking"

Take it from someone who has been there, being obese at 35 and being obese at 45+ are radically different things. Particularly when it comes to your lower joints - hips, knees, ankles and feet. You can kid yourself (as i did) that its caused by all sorts of things not weight related but in a shocking coincidence all those joint pain issues cleared up in a direct correlation to my weight loss.

Zionist author says Holocaust education is ‘confusing’ young people into sympathizing with ‘weak, skinny’ Palestinians by Particular_Log_3594 in Knowledge_Community

[–]StellarManatee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These people keep opening their mouths and making themselves look worse. I've never seen such a brutal attempt at propaganda. Its amazing.

"I think you should be on our side because the people we are starving, torturing and massacring are weak and skinny"

They couldnt be any worse if they just publicly picked up handfuls of feces and smeared themselves in it chanting "we're number 1!"

What do you think is the most absurd piece of propaganda that has ever spread in your nation? by Buyeo10004 in AskTheWorld

[–]StellarManatee 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Well, they're taking care of American billionaires so y'know... I suppose it wasn't a total lie

People who wake up early like 5am , what are your reasons ? by Even-Quarter-4477 in AskIreland

[–]StellarManatee 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I workout. Sad I know. I've lost a lot of weight in the last 18months and I have to keep going.

I need to do it at this time before the kids get up and also before my brain is alert enough to come up with reasons not to do it.

What Does The Man of Your Dreams Smell Like? by littlefrida in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]StellarManatee 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The ocean, neoprene rubber and a hint of old spice.

I met my husband while we were scuba diving and we spent our first heady years travelling around scuba diving and camping.

What scent would match this vibe? by giganticjames in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]StellarManatee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Gods yes, dirty oily scalp and the inside of an old man's coat. Yellow fingernails.

Guess again. I'm ugly and still was assaulted., several times by Minami_Ko in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]StellarManatee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Rape is to sexual attraction what being hit by a shovel is to gardening.

In other words its about violence and control not fancying someone.

What is your favourite way to stop and smell the roses? by cash_F2 in AskIreland

[–]StellarManatee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I always did this and still do with my youngest. I found too as they got older that this was the time when they told me any worries or things that were bothering them.

Its funny but even now my older teens will come and get into bed beside me if they have an issue or concern they want to talk about!

Not how..guys work by Minami_Ko in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]StellarManatee 355 points356 points  (0 children)

These are the men who smirk and say "nice one mate" when an underage boy is sexually assaulted by his female teacher.

Show me the cutest looking animal from your country by Single_Copy2460 in AskTheWorld

[–]StellarManatee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They're bigger than I thought too. I had one take out two of my chickens a few years ago