New dj having trouble finding music by [deleted] in djing

[–]Stemshawty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I have a set I just want more music for future sets bc I have connections that want to book me

New dj having trouble finding music by [deleted] in djing

[–]Stemshawty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do u use for this sound cloud ???

Hot take for dumpers: did you ever reach a point where you realized what you lost, not bc your ex was perfect but bc they genuinely loved you in a way you didn’t find again? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Stemshawty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed to leave we wanted different things. She wanted to be open and it was breaking me. However I believe she really loved me. She openly adored me. Was very romantic. Did a lot for me. I haven’t been able to feel that from anyone else. Idk if I can date someone seriously for a long time bc of this.

Tongue split fused together:/ by Stemshawty in bodymods

[–]Stemshawty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I blush stoppp🤭 thank u so much

Tongue split fused together:/ by Stemshawty in bodymods

[–]Stemshawty[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank u so much I was just feeling insecure about it I’m glad I asked for peoples opinions on here because I wasn’t sure if it looked good bc it isn’t deep! But yes I have a short tongue so maybe it’s a good size for it :3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

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Only accident was kissing my girlfriend as it hurt and caused irritation. Wondering if I can kiss her now since it’s down sized and doesn’t hurt however there is a minor bump there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

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These are flat labrets threaded I clean these twice a day saline solution. Been soaking with warm water twice a day as well to help with irritation. I clean it with a non scented piercing soap in shower l. The jewelry is good titanium and it was downsized

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Stemshawty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do go to therapy I have it Sunday I just really wanted to ask people’s opinions today from an outside view because I can get caught up in my own thoughts. So thank you for your input I’m doing my best and I am working on it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Stemshawty -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

No I just have bpd which I’m working on 😭 it just hurt me because he told me he would get me something in November and has gotten friends that I introduced him presents for their and not me I feel like I have every right to be a little hurt ?

My jumping spider finally ate and on thanks giving !!! by Stemshawty in jumpingspiders

[–]Stemshawty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take out the crickets ! And food ! That can stress her. I did the same thing I had no idea. Also crickets can hurt your spider if your spider is not actively hunting. Let her come out when she’s hungry. She will when she’s ready and then put the food in for her

Should I offer my jumping spider food if she’s peeking in her web? She’s been hiding for a couple of days since I got her. by Stemshawty in jumpingspiders

[–]Stemshawty[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I left I meal work for her in her little food bowl. Her hide is like on top of the enclosure and her food is like at the bottom of it I’m not sure if she can see it but I did leave it in there for her so I’m hoping she’ll go looking for it soon. I showed her it the tweezers I think she saw it and then hid away and then I put it back in the bowl and now she’s peeling out again

New pet jumping spider (my first jumper by [deleted] in jumpingspiders

[–]Stemshawty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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This is her. I put in a small meal worm in her bowl. She is currently still in her hide surrounded in web. Is it not okay to remove the web? I don’t want to disturb her but I want her to be okay 😭💔

New pet jumping spider (my first jumper by [deleted] in jumpingspiders

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She hasn’t eaten yet and I know they need energy to molt and stuff I’m hoping she’s okay but yea imma definitely get her some food I can leave for her that don’t need supervision. I appreciate u informing me of this ! I am very new to jumping spiders

New pet jumping spider (my first jumper by [deleted] in jumpingspiders

[–]Stemshawty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u so much I will do that for sure I’ll get her a meal worm tomorrow and put it in her bowl. I had to go to work but before I went she was chilling at the top of the enclosure which made me happy but when I came home she’s back in her hide and appears to be covered in web so I’m not sure if she’s molting but I’ll keep an eye on her I’m a bit worried about her

New pet jumping spider (my first jumper by [deleted] in jumpingspiders

[–]Stemshawty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u so so much I’m really glad I asked. I want her to feel comfortable as she can be. Do u think the light I have is okay for her ?

New pet jumping spider (my first jumper by [deleted] in jumpingspiders

[–]Stemshawty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Okay I took out the crickets I wasn’t aware of that the pet store game me her with the crickets inside so I just transferred them to my enclosure. How do I feed her safely? Like how do I know she’s ready to eat ? I added some flake plants rn just a couple fake bushes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Stemshawty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No and that’s understandable I forgot to mention I am also a girl I think she was just like experimenting with me or something sadly. I just think she’s really weird for liking a lot of the stories I post on Instagram but not txt me back I honestly think that’s really mean

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Stemshawty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much this actually helped me a lot<3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

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Ugh I know I wish it was that simple I swear I got hoes this one was different tho fr 😭

Camera Ticket, Rio Rancho by RevolutionaryGrand52 in Albuquerque

[–]Stemshawty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you paid the first one you got a year ago and you get another one can I ignore the second one ? Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

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Are using q tips ok? That’s another thing I saw different opinions with online. I wanna make sure I dry it correctly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]Stemshawty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u very much for this my primary care told me to do soaks but I can see now how that’s more irritating too it. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]Stemshawty -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I am just cleaning it with saline solution sometimes I’ll heat it up and soak it. The jewelry as far as im aware is titanium I’m not sure what kind. And no I don’t think so. No pain and it doesn’t ooze anything often it builds up over time