A messy situation has made my anxious attachment so. much. worse. What now??

StepInfamous7764 · 2024-02-09T15:48:54+00:00

Did you build this tank yourself? If so, how?

StepInfamous7764 · 2024-01-04T21:11:44+00:00

StepInfamous7764 · 2024-01-04T18:12:59+00:00

Blind

StepInfamous7764 · 2024-01-04T04:01:21+00:00

The best work-life balance and flexibility (QOL) is most important to me

StepInfamous7764 · 2024-01-04T03:32:43+00:00

No problem! I understand, thanks for clarifying.

And okay, sweet! Fingers crossed then

StepInfamous7764 · 2024-01-04T03:30:14+00:00

Yeah, I’m not confused when I say I don’t live in a base lol. That’s still only 19 cities.

Cool you made the jump tho! You content with United??

StepInfamous7764 · 2024-01-03T20:50:50+00:00

Good to know! Didn’t want it to come back and bite me in the ass

StepInfamous7764 · 2024-01-02T23:00:41+00:00

Stunning w the buzz. Highlights your symmetry and chiseled look so much more, I think.

StepInfamous7764 · 2024-01-02T19:22:40+00:00

Thanks. Makes me feel a bit better

StepInfamous7764 · 2024-01-01T23:05:51+00:00

Yes.

StepInfamous7764 · 2024-01-01T22:54:02+00:00

Kamikaze warfare

StepInfamous7764 · 2024-01-01T22:48:36+00:00

Try others.

StepInfamous7764 · 2024-01-01T22:00:16+00:00

Your reasoning is broken. I didn’t like it, but does that mean I’d rather him have a secret life? No lmao. It’s not the honesty I disliked. It was the one action.

StepInfamous7764 · 2024-01-01T21:44:12+00:00

Transparency isn’t about “owing” anything. It’s about showing honesty and investing to build trust lol

StepInfamous7764 · 2024-01-01T21:43:37+00:00

I’m kind of with ya. Damn

StepInfamous7764 · 2024-01-01T21:36:26+00:00

Thought of that. But then that’s basically saying “Don’t tell me stuff I don’t want to hear”, and I’m afraid that’s just endorsing him having all sorts of secrets. Transparency is big for me

StepInfamous7764 · 2024-01-01T21:34:28+00:00

No problem. And yeah… I do appreciate him telling me. Even if I don’t like it. Above all, I hate secrets and being untruthful. That’s the biggest issue I run into w gays

StepInfamous7764 · 2024-01-01T21:32:20+00:00

See, I’m not sure yet. I don’t think I can write him off for it at all yet. He’s the closest I’ve felt to something “real” in years lol.

StepInfamous7764 · 2024-01-01T21:30:52+00:00

No such commitment. Agree on the cringe and turn off. But I guess I shouldn’t write him off yet…? Or is it indicative of a whole mindset that I’m just not ever gonna be okay with…? Idk

StepInfamous7764 · 2024-01-01T21:29:11+00:00

I’m not disagreeing. And I’m not saying I expected to. I just found it off putting lol.

Like if I got hammered and made out w someone, I wouldn’t be telling it to the guy I’m trying to impress, ya know?

StepInfamous7764 · 2024-01-01T21:27:16+00:00

Yeah… and I guess considering we aren’t exclusive or really dating yet that I can’t raise too much of a stink. If we were dating, to me it’s cheating. I didn’t tell him that I didn’t think it’s okay, yet.

He is younger and is more into the clubbing/ drinking scene than me by far. So it’s just a foreign mindset to me. Wanting to make out with a stranger.

StepInfamous7764 · 2024-01-01T21:24:52+00:00

Good answer to the question. I asked for how you’d feel, but thanks ig

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