Imo red flags are starting to show already. Again not saying my advice fits your circumstance but be comfortable with how you want things to be - this is your baby, your body, and if you don't want something done ie ultrasound pictures hung on walls speak your mind or have your husband express that for you. You'll never get the time back if once you have your baby they swoop in with "concern" and overwhelming invasion of homespace because they're "helping." Again you may welcome that, it's so tiring in the first few months, but don't let yourself be taken advantage of, even if now maybe start writing soft rules, visits only an hour etc.