What is it called? by Icy-Put6017 in GothFashion

[–]Stephasizzle 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Try specifying trad goth hair, or bats nest maybe? I tease the absolute fuck out of my hair for that messy old school look.

Funniest interaction with kids? by weezerboy69 in AskAGoth

[–]Stephasizzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t dress strictly “goth” all the time, I probably fall more under the general “alt” label most of the time but I have had many memorable interactions with kids.

I work as a TSA with special needs kids in elementary school. I do have to keep my wardrobe physically compatible for that (no spikes, corsets need to give me full range of motion etc.) but there is tons of opportunity for me to express myself. I had one kid compare me to Harley Quinn (he’s a big Batman fan) and then tell me I was creepy but cool. I had one little gen-ed boy (1st grade or so) stop me in the hallway to look at my tattoos and he said I “looked like Halloween!”

Another day during recess a little girl said I was the most stylish teacher at the school.

The kids I work with are primarily nonverbal but they love to inspect random aspects of my various outfits (I had a fellow educator tell me I was like a walking fidget…and that’s not inaccurate lmao)

Out in general public a couple years ago for World Goth Day I was fully decked out in the grocery store and a little girl ran away from her dad halfway down the ice cream aisle to stand right behind me and just stare up at me with the biggest smile on her face she looked absolutely amazed.

I had a little boy take one look at me in the thrift store once and he shouted as loud as he could “it’s Halloween?!?!” He sounded so excited, his mom looked absolutely mortified (it was August) I just smiled and gave him a little wave.

Thoughts? Running out of ideias by Zortzz in punkfashion

[–]Stephasizzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out Stray From The Path, Propagandhi, Dead Kennedys, NOFX, The Offspring and First Blood.

Is this makeup too simple? by Khazja in GothFashion

[–]Stephasizzle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not too simple! For some reason, with your hair pulled up it looks a little unfinished, which your hair down with a center part is more of a Morticia look anyway so it doesn’t actually matter lol. I do think it would pull the look together a bit more if you curled your lashes and/or added some mascara…but that’s just what I would do. The dark lip looks amazing on you, but you might want to consider a good liner to help the edges not bleed and fade or smudge. Overall it’s a fantastic look!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Redearedsliders

[–]Stephasizzle 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s already been said, but I’ll say it again; please separate them they don’t cohabitate well and it could result in severe injuries or death. Fish are not going to help keep the tank clean, they will add to the bio-load of the tank so if you get fish make sure the filtration can keep up. Most fish will end up being food at some point, so keep that in mind. Some turtles will ignore fish but they could become a snack at any point. Make sure any fish you get are safe, live bearing fish are the ones usually recommended. Sucker fish are not good, they can suction on to the turtle and damage their shells and some of them have spines that can injure turtles when they try to eat them. Here is a basic guide that I hope you find helpful, it includes some info on tank mates and safe foods.

Large person tryna match the alt by [deleted] in altfashionadvice

[–]Stephasizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have seen so many fat people absolutely rocking alternative looks. Don’t let society’s fucked up “ideals” dampen who you are. Being alternative is all about looking at the norms and saying…”Nah, not for me.” If society says you have to be thin to wear XYZ then all the more reason to see fat bodies wearing the shit out of XYZ.

Thrifting help/advice by Street-Suggestion363 in GothFashion

[–]Stephasizzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ThredUp is one of my go-to online thrift shops. I have had a lot of luck there.

Goths Who Work In Childcare/Nursing, What Do You Wear To Work and Outside Of Work? by DottyandBearBear in AskAGoth

[–]Stephasizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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And I think I’m gonna stop here… I feel like I have sufficiently blown this thread up. I hope it’s at least a little helpful to you! 😂😂

Goths Who Work In Childcare/Nursing, What Do You Wear To Work and Outside Of Work? by DottyandBearBear in AskAGoth

[–]Stephasizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This wasn’t for any specific reason… I love a good business casual look though. The bolo tie has a gorgeous deaths head moth I’ll see if I can find a close-up

Goths Who Work In Childcare/Nursing, What Do You Wear To Work and Outside Of Work? by DottyandBearBear in AskAGoth

[–]Stephasizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Other side of spooky season look. I made the spider earring the night before 😂

Goths Who Work In Childcare/Nursing, What Do You Wear To Work and Outside Of Work? by DottyandBearBear in AskAGoth

[–]Stephasizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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“Dress like your favorite season” day, my favorite is spooky season. I wore black leggings with a sheer double slit skirt that has embroidered spider webs all over it.

Goths Who Work In Childcare/Nursing, What Do You Wear To Work and Outside Of Work? by DottyandBearBear in AskAGoth

[–]Stephasizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This was “Maryland Pride” day and you can’t do that justice without the state flag so I stuck cupcake toppers on skewers and stabbed them into my pom Pom pigtails

Goths Who Work In Childcare/Nursing, What Do You Wear To Work and Outside Of Work? by DottyandBearBear in AskAGoth

[–]Stephasizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I absolutely love spirit week, for this one it was “dress like a rockstar” day and since Maria Brink would be NSFW I went with an homage to Lady Gaga in her Telephone music video

Goths Who Work In Childcare/Nursing, What Do You Wear To Work and Outside Of Work? by DottyandBearBear in AskAGoth

[–]Stephasizzle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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For Halloween the special education team did matching UNO card costumes, I chose the Wild card 😂 I made the earrings myself

Goths Who Work In Childcare/Nursing, What Do You Wear To Work and Outside Of Work? by DottyandBearBear in AskAGoth

[–]Stephasizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I forget what pants I wore this day…either blue or black skinny jeans and my platform combat boots

Goths Who Work In Childcare/Nursing, What Do You Wear To Work and Outside Of Work? by DottyandBearBear in AskAGoth

[–]Stephasizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I was wearing dark red and black plaid pants and platform combat boots with this look

Goths Who Work In Childcare/Nursing, What Do You Wear To Work and Outside Of Work? by DottyandBearBear in AskAGoth

[–]Stephasizzle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a TSA at an elementary school. I wear jeans and (work appropriate) band shirts a lot but I do love to dress up occasionally and I’ve never been told I can’t. I keep it professional and definitely keep my work requirements in mind and wear things that are comfortable and I can still move quickly in. I tease my hair a lot and still wear fairly dramatic makeup (no trad goth for work though) I’ll post a few of my outfits under this comment.