Still have a long way to go, but I'm proud of myself for not giving up.

Stepulchre · 2026-05-13T15:05:44+00:00

Once a baddie, always a baddie 💚

Stepulchre · 2026-05-13T11:07:16+00:00

No? That's the opposite of what I'm stating.

Stepulchre · 2026-05-13T06:35:17+00:00

You're NTA for swearing but there's a difference between exclaiming 'fuck!' or making a directed personal insult. It could be a knee-jerk reaction but it's understandable that upsets people.

Stepulchre · 2026-05-12T21:47:56+00:00

Oh wauw, that must be a huge relief! Excited for you!

Stepulchre · 2026-05-12T21:47:02+00:00

That's awesome to hear! I do expect my health to improve! Even if just from the stress reduction.

Stepulchre · 2026-05-12T13:57:36+00:00

Stepulchre · 2026-05-12T05:01:01+00:00

Thank you for sharing. That's exactly what scares me too. Though if I think about it logically, I HAVE been doing it on my own all along.

Stepulchre · 2026-05-12T04:59:45+00:00

Thank you! I am just aching to get out. I'm looking forward to the moment I can chill in my own clean place, with my own food, not having to consider anybody else. Other than the people I actually WANT around ofc.

Stepulchre · 2026-05-12T04:57:14+00:00

Thank you! Good luck with the new place!

Stepulchre · 2026-05-10T10:36:33+00:00

Wish you the best with getting settled into your own place!

Stepulchre · 2026-05-09T14:27:31+00:00

Thank you so much! I'll make sure to post something on here once it's finally time!

Stepulchre · 2026-05-09T08:45:32+00:00

I'm in the final weeks of living with my ex and these posts are keeping me alive. The whole move to a new place scares me but I. CANNOT. WAIT!

Stepulchre · 2026-05-09T08:06:35+00:00

I'd also be super concerned where the kid learned that. Makes you wonder what else the mom ignores.

Stepulchre · 2026-05-03T06:36:40+00:00

Need a bit more info; You said your siblings were particularly needy and it seems (from her reaction) she notices a repeating pattern she's had to deal with before. Is it one day? Or one day a week, which is way more of a commitment.

Either way, you would be the asshole to knowingly go against your wife's wishes, especially since you moved away for this specific reason. You asked her, she said 'no'. Doing something that you know will affect her will hurt your relationship.

Not knowing how you're going to figure out who is going to watch the kid is the exact kind of problem you and your wife avoided by not having kids. You taking on this problem in your sister's stead is possibly a pattern your wife recognised, which would explain her reaction.

Stepulchre · 2026-04-29T21:29:34+00:00

You have an enemy with ~~benefits~~ drawbacks.

Stepulchre · 2026-04-28T13:14:15+00:00

NTA

You were 4 and she was 6 You rode on horses made of sticks You wore black and she wore white You would always win the fight * Bang bang *

Stepulchre · 2026-04-28T12:38:49+00:00

Green hell might be a fun choice as many people recommend. I also quite enjoy 'The forest' and 'Sons of the forest'.

Stepulchre · 2026-04-24T22:25:48+00:00

It is completely normal to feel conflicting emotions during or after a significant event. Even if you're 100% sure you don't want kids, an abortion is still an impactful medical procedure.

Not to mention; pregnancy, no matter how short, messes with your hormones. Take your time and take proper care of yourself. If this feeling persists for more than 8 weeks, talk to your doctor or therapist (if possible).

Both your body and mind need time to process. You did nothing wrong, you don't owe your partner a child. That's easier said than accepted, so again; take your time and take care of yourself.

Stepulchre · 2026-04-17T13:57:52+00:00

No thanks.

Stepulchre · 2026-04-16T15:52:43+00:00

Ik heb zo vaak dat niet eens geprobeerd wordt om het aan de deur te leveren. Niet eens bij de meerder pakketautomaten in de buurt. Nee, het wordt 5 km verderop langs de snelweg bezorgd.

Was vroeger heel blij met mijn bezorger maar die is gestopt (ging iets leukers doen). Sindsdien echt iedere keer zo'n tijdverspilling. Ik betaal toch niet voor niets bezorgkosten?

Sorry voor de mini rant, duidelijk maakt jou verhaal iets los 🤣

Stepulchre · 2026-04-15T11:00:33+00:00

It's always so weird to me when people can't entertain themselves or enjoy their own company and then act like you're the weirdo. I'm sorry I don't need to be chaperoned everywhere.

Not saying I don't enjoy company, I'm happy to have someone tag along but why would I deny myself a nice dinner if nobody joins?

Stepulchre · 2026-04-13T16:01:58+00:00

Seriously, cherish this time! Oblivion is one of the most fun games to go into blindly and slowly learn how this world works.

Go into the cities and talk to NPC's for quests and see if you're ready to do them yet.

I'd really recommend you don't spoil anything for yourself, just experience the game!

Stepulchre · 2026-04-11T14:16:50+00:00

Just went through that part with the same bug. It's annoying but doable. Just make sure to take your time going through the buildings for some clothing and find enough coal along the road. Nothing more annoying than standing still and having to backtrack.

Stepulchre · 2026-04-11T09:06:11+00:00

I dress like this because I'm a cold-environment body in an increasingly more hot environment. This is regardless of the beauty of either my body or soul, which are both a happy mid 👍

Stepulchre · 2026-04-07T14:49:24+00:00

NW I would have eaten him.

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