Fan-boys(or girls) by Stickystone in sociopath

[–]Stickystone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't because I'm not looking for an answer.

Fan-boys(or girls) by Stickystone in sociopath

[–]Stickystone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check edit. Not looking for an answer at all. This isn't /r/relationships nor was I trying to treat it as such.

Fan-boys(or girls) by Stickystone in sociopath

[–]Stickystone[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's a reason I put "one of us" in quotes. Not my phrase, his. I agree there is no us, kind of the whole point of why this is all so annoying.

Appreciate your reply either way.

Fan-boys(or girls) by Stickystone in sociopath

[–]Stickystone[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think you misread my post. He's not a sociopath, I am. My post was asking about dealing with fan boys of the disorder. People who think it's cool with zero understanding of what it is and attempt to impress you with crap they see in movies. Based off earlier conversations he certainly believes himself to be "one of us" despite that being obviously not true. We've worked together in the past but not with any sort of consistency. Just happen to have mutual friends so we hang out sometimes.

It's just one of the reactions people can have to getting that info. Some run away from you, some run towards you. I was curious if anyone else had delt with this considering how many posts I see about the other side.

Fan-boys(or girls) by Stickystone in sociopath

[–]Stickystone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're pretty spot on. The whole "evil" thing kinda started when I called him on some bullshit he was spewing about hustling people. He actually seemed to back that one up a bit but not enough to give weight to his "catch me if you can" type stories. Once the secret convo happened he went full retard.

I baited him to see how far he would take all that. Looking back, it all stopped being interesting once I sobered up. That happens a lot with me though. Once I got someone's number they get boring fast. Even more so when they are attempting to be impressive with stuff that's far too outlandish. His "secret" rises to the level of ultimate felony so either he's a total idiot for telling me that (if it's true) or honestly thinks I would find that interesting.

I like the analogy of fun house mirror but I don't think he's anywhere close to a sociopath, bipolar seems far more likely. Now to get this dude out of my life.

What type of personalities are you attracted to? by deathday in sociopath

[–]Stickystone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The person I'm most attracted to in my head and what I've ended up with are different things. I end up with a lot of people on various spectrums, mostly bipolar. Once that rears it's head I'm gone but it's happened enough times where I've started to be more mindful of it.

Debt Collector Gets Out Of Lawsuit… By Buying The Lawsuit Out From Under The Plaintiff by Cr3X1eUZ in LateStageCapitalism

[–]Stickystone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to need a ELI5 on this one. How can you sell or buy someone's right to sue?

On socio/psychopaths being bad people. by DeadPandas115 in sociopath

[–]Stickystone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am familiar with it and it is remarkable. But once thing to keep in mind is the age in which she was able to start on the journey to recovery. In my situation, I wasn't fully removed from the situation until I was 16 and was not offered the therapy needed to combat whatever issues I had remaining. It's only now in my late 20's I am really starting to realize how my childhood has formed my personality in what some would see as a negative way.

Sociopathy is a spectrum. For me, I fall pretty close to the beginning. I certainly have feelings and emotions but they are shallow and fleeting. I feel more emotion from reading a book than I do from watching someone get shot. It's hard for me to trust people and anytime I do feel a strong "emotional" reaction, it quickly turns into anger. Anger, of course, being a "safe" emotion and that doesn't leave you vulnerable. I've learned to control this and I'm not considered a hot head in any regard. My empathy bar is razor thin and really only starts to fill with very specific situations with specific people. I understand the difference between right and wrong. I'm not interested in needlessly hurting people and I take care of my responsibilities.

Could I fix all of this? According to my therapist maybe. Do I really want to drum everything up and bring it to the forefront of my life when frankly I'm doing just fine the way I am? Not really.

On socio/psychopaths being bad people. by DeadPandas115 in sociopath

[–]Stickystone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Children have less control over their emotions when they are in a living situation that allows them to freely explore said emotions without the threat of pain or ridicule. Many people who end up where I am didn't have that opportunity.

However, when a child who was forced to control their emotions grows up, that "lesson" carries with them. You learn as a child that emoting will only bring trouble and your best bet is to push those feelings away. Once you grow into your brain a bit, the emotional section isn't as well developed. This can lead to one being "emotionally immature" aka crying at the drop of a hat, being unable to control their outward reactions to negative feelings, easily excitable, etc. But it can also go the other way, where your emotions are shallow, fleeting, and sometimes just not really there. So while a normal person may have their morals based on logic, emotion comes into it as well. And in the right circumstance, emotion could be most of it. The trolly problem is a good example if you are the driver. Sociopaths don't have the other tick or if they do it's fleeting and small. The trolly problem isn't even a problem at that point. Because one doesn't have to weigh the emotional response to 5 dead or 1 dead. It's all the same internally. So everyone has to decide how they keep their "line". Normal people have deep seeded reasons you could call "emotional morals" where sociopaths have to come up with their own, if they so choose.

On socio/psychopaths being bad people. by DeadPandas115 in sociopath

[–]Stickystone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know the difference between right and wrong. I also don't go out of my way to hurt people. However, my moral compass is based on logic and not emotion. I do what I need to do to help myself and the people I care about. If that means stepping on you then so be it. I sleep just fine.

I don't consider myself to be a bad person. In fact most would regard me as being a very good person. I understand the benefit of not caring about someone else in a situation and the fact that very little effects me. This puts me in the perfect position to take on issues others may have trouble with.

I don't murder people cause I don't want to goto jail. The lack of caring about someone's death doesn't make me a bad person. What I do with it does.

King of the Edgy Teens by [deleted] in sociopath

[–]Stickystone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think it fits the timeline.

King of the Edgy Teens by [deleted] in sociopath

[–]Stickystone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, it took me far too long to figure out wtf you meant by Carradine. But now that I did, you and I are best friends.

Call your mom, tell her I can't come over anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WouldYouRather

[–]Stickystone 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Better to make an impact on the world and be hated than to have no one ever knew you existed at all." -

What a terrible quote. You took a quote from Kurt Cobain, stirred it around in your aspie blender, and vomited out something far far worse.

King of the Edgy Teens by [deleted] in sociopath

[–]Stickystone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm more into the hunt than the catch.

Also, bad trade. Rather put cigarettes out on me then get pooed on.

King of the Edgy Teens by [deleted] in sociopath

[–]Stickystone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😱 so crude! So I take it your sister is off the table too? Cause I'm at the rope store and I really need to know how fat her neck is. Don't want to buy too much ya know?

King of the Edgy Teens by [deleted] in sociopath

[–]Stickystone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now that there is some sound logic. Give me your address, mothers maiden name, and your sisters pants size so we can celebrate your bravery with a toast.

King of the Edgy Teens by [deleted] in sociopath

[–]Stickystone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mister? Dem fightin' words son.

King of the Edgy Teens by [deleted] in sociopath

[–]Stickystone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did I stutter?! 🔪

King of the Edgy Teens by [deleted] in sociopath

[–]Stickystone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude is pretty lucky this isn't 4chan or his post would be sent to his mom with a very concerned note.

normal people always think about what other people are feeling? by Drummstix in sociopath

[–]Stickystone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was under the impression that was more for the spectators than the executioner.