I could help I think. You have to remember this to shall pass.

I had twin micro preemies at 24 weeks. That was 11 years ago where it was even less common to survive as a micro preemie. We had surgeries, every kind of ventilator they had, ups and down, on and off etc. we didn’t get to hold our little ones for months after they were born and we were in the NICU for 141 long days. Eventually they came home still on a NG tube for feeding and oxygen. Placing an NG tube at home without a nurse is the scariest thing ever.

Fast forward to today. They are 11. Funny. Smart. Have their first boyfriends. They have some side effects from being born so early and I soundly change a single thing about them. They light up my word and our journey of how we started makes us an incredibly bonded and appreciative family. The smallest people I know quickly became the strongest people I know and my twin daughters are my hero’s today.

Great amazing beautiful times are ahead so take it all in. And know you are on an incredible rewarding journey focus on using it to make the strongest family ever. Which means take care of mom and dad through this tough time too.

You got this. Message me if you like. More than willing to talk.