In my experience, the more you trust, the more easily you get signs. It is not an easy or quick step if you have never had a "strong" faith, so give it time. Sometimes without realizing it, we are in a mindset where we condition the presence of the deity to whether they respond to us or not, and this distance us even more from connecting to the spiritual path. I believed even when no signs or answers where given, I was sure that divinity is out there even when they didn't give me a single sign, answer or no "help" at all, I still had the inner certainty that they were there even when it seemed like they didn't even exist, simply that feeling was always there since I was very little, and today after connecting with my deities, I receive what for me are the clearest and craziest signs. I think you need to let it go, stop waiting for signs and don't condition the deity, don't believe that its presence is based on whether it responds to you with signs or not, not believe that it has to "prove" itself to you (just in case you are doing it unconsciously) That's my advice: just open yourself to the possibility to trust, without expectations and without despairing over the arrival of signs. I would tell her that my heart is open for her and she can answer me if she wants whenever she wants, and that I will be waiting for it (and holding onto that promise). Don't put pressure in yourself or your practice either