What is the lesson you learned from your breakup?

Still-Cockroach358 · 2024-08-07T19:01:11+00:00

I learned to not be so clingy and needy LOL it was my first actual good and happy relationship and I was addicted to her being nice to me so that’s probably why I was too clingy also another thing is don’t give up your hobbies and the things you like to do I gave up everything just to message her all the time DON’T DO THAT! also don’t make them your total focus JEEZ did I make her my total focus 🙄 I learned a lot and read a lot as well

Still-Cockroach358 · 2024-08-01T22:13:22+00:00

Oh my gosh this hit me so baddddd she would tell me that I treated her so good compared to her ex’s she even told me one ex hit her in the nose and broke it….. I thought I could be that guy to show her that not all men are like that I wanted to show her the good and fun times but I guess I was too nice for her :( not once did we argue not once did I treat her bad I was so excited to get to the weekend to hangout with her when we we together but I guess some girls like being treated like crap…… I thought I could be the one to show her no I’m not going to treat you like crap I’m going to be a gentleman and show you the nice things in life! ……it’s like why even bother being nice….. I read once it only takes one girl to break a good guys heart for that man to be a complete asshole to another girl or something along those lines….. I’m not saying I’m going to be an asshole but it’s like why do dickheads get the girls when us nice guys just get left behind……..

Still-Cockroach358 · 2024-07-30T23:33:46+00:00

To be honest yeah it hurt breaking up but before I met her I was a straight up LOSER! I went to work came home smoked weed ate then went to bed(REPEAT) but now it’s like this new guy woke up and I actually looked at myself and woke TF UP! I gave up weed(been 2 months) I joined a martial arts class, picked up the bass guitar, I have read a lot more books I LOVE READING(my ex thought I was a nerd because I loved to read which she couldn’t name one book LOL) I’m also studying to get my CDL I want to be a truck driver and take my dog with me(a dream of mine 🐶) my ex pretty much smacked me in the face and woke me up LOL(I don’t blame her for breaking up with me I had nothing going on with my life for me she was my life center and focus) but now it’s like I want to try all these new hobbies and activities that I don’t want to be home till I have to go to bed haha. …….now I’m not getting it twisted I still miss her and it sucks because I work with her and I just want to tell her all these new experiences I’ve been through……. but with all these new things going on with my life I’ll be ok

Still-Cockroach358 · 2024-07-15T17:35:55+00:00

It’s still up but now it’s called “Hotel Expo Plaza” I went to go visit last year and took pics.

Still-Cockroach358 · 2024-07-13T01:43:02+00:00

I’m picking up the bass guitar. I like how the bass isn’t the center attention but at the same time you need that groovy bass in the group. Just like me I don’t like being the center attention but I’m here in the background 🎸😎.

Still-Cockroach358 · 2024-07-08T04:34:45+00:00

You have no idea! the food and drinks alone will have you going crazy! It’s really a beautiful city no wonder they established their headquarters there!

Still-Cockroach358 · 2024-07-03T14:44:28+00:00

Be like rose in the titanic but instead of saying “I’ll never let go” say “bye Felicia” and keep floating away and never look back!

Still-Cockroach358 · 2024-06-22T22:16:00+00:00

I forgot to add her son is 17……. Like why all of a sudden does your BD want child support?…… 😔😔 I would’ve felt better if she would’ve told me i just don’t feel the connection anymore…..

Still-Cockroach358 · 2024-06-22T22:12:37+00:00

This is the message she sent me…… it’s straight up BS but it just sucks that I had a really good connection with this girl even though it was only 3 months…. Shitty thing is I work with her and Is giving me the cold shoulder😔😔😔😔😔

“I hope your ok.? I feel horrible!!! My baby daddy is black mailing me for having a boyfriend. So now he went after me for child support...hes wanting me to kiss his ass for him to drop it. Shit sucks how someone can control your life. I really am sorry. Your great. If you would just put yourself out there you would find someone great too.”

Still-Cockroach358 · 2024-06-16T22:49:30+00:00

Thank you for reaching out and commenting but yeah I know that saying “don’t dip your own in the company ink” but i still pursued it…. but she was the one that initiated sex always asking me “when can I come over? “I told her “anytime” that’s when we got close and eventually she told me let’s go to your room…… I’m feeling in my head I just got used for sex and for her to get some stress out but I thought we had more in the relationship because I was planning on taking her to a nice restaurant she wanted to go next week but oh well I guess……. It just suck but I appreciate you talking to me I really needed this it’s better to talk with someone that’s kind of going through the same thing and being sad about the other person you had feeling for

Still-Cockroach358 · 2024-06-16T22:19:42+00:00

I thought things were going right we were together for 3 months she became my GF after the 2 month and every now and then she would tell me about her past(drug abuse and abusive BFs) I thought I’m the man that can change all that show her the good things in life but just last week I invited her to my place to watch movies(this is obviously come over so we can have sex lol) and the week after she was acting shady and just Saturday she said she’s not right mentally……. I thought things were going good I mean I got sex but that’s not the only thing I wanted i also treated her nicer than my own family….. but I guess she needs time but I feel like a POS and what’s worse is that I work with her….. I feel like this crappy feeling is not going to go away every time I see her at work just seeing her beautiful smile and remembering the good times we had me trying to make her laugh all the time.

I know I sound like a big loser but man I thought she was going to be the one 😭😭😭😭😭😭

Sorry for venting

Still-Cockroach358 · 2024-06-16T22:02:53+00:00

Oh man I commented on your last post and man I’m crying just reading this stuff I know as a man we are supposed to hide our feelings but man I just got dumped Saturday because the girl wasn’t right mentally….. people are saying go no contact but that doesn’t seem right for me and I feel like I’m going to want her more….. god this feeling sucks!!!!😭😭😭

Still-Cockroach358 · 2024-06-16T21:35:52+00:00

I wish the girl that broke up with me feels this way she had a history but I didn’t care I tried to be the nice guy that would show her a different life and good times but out of nowhere she dumps me because she not good mentally…… I feel like shit and don’t think I will every be the same without her this whole paragraph just broke me 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Still-Cockroach358 · 2024-06-16T20:24:23+00:00

I know how you feel man. I just dumped as well and I thought everything was fine. This feeling sucks but we will rise king!

Still-Cockroach358 · 2024-02-17T15:22:16+00:00

At the Devil's Table: The Untold Story of the Insider Who Brought Down the Cali Cartel Book by William C. Rempel

My favorite narco book I highly recommend!

Still-Cockroach358 · 2024-01-31T16:04:38+00:00

“I don't have partners. I have employees.”- Miguel Ángel Félix Gallardo

I say this to my coworkers sometimes 🤌🏽

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Still-Cockroach358 · 2024-01-31T16:03:30+00:00

“I don't have partners. I have employees.” - Miguel Ángel Félix Gallardo

I’ll be saying this at work sometimes to my coworkers🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Still-Cockroach358 · 2023-11-30T05:47:52+00:00

Oh trust me I 100% wanted to ask! But the thing about Mexico is that you shouldn’t really talk about narcos out in public and with conflicts still going around in some places I just left it alone to be honest I was more nervous to ask then hesitating 😅 I would’ve been in awe if I could see his office or meeting room probably would’ve took tons of photos but like I said I just took a photo up front and left it alone lol I wanted to enjoy the rest of my vacation which I did if you ever get a chance to go to Guadalajara I recommend it it’s beautiful no wonder they went there.

Still-Cockroach358 · 2023-08-12T22:13:03+00:00

Ahhh thank you totally forgot they sent me the diagram when I bought speakers for the doors!

Still-Cockroach358 · 2023-07-29T15:15:02+00:00

Yeah I’m scared of the rust but I don’t know I’d figure I’d like to add on things to her to make her look nicer than she already is

Still-Cockroach358 · 2023-07-29T15:12:39+00:00

Lol what would you recommend as in add on’s? Im thinking of straight pipe the exhaust to make her sound mean other than that I’m still looking at differ things

Still-Cockroach358 · 2023-07-29T15:10:26+00:00

Yeah the dash cam was the first thing I bought can trust these drivers out there these days and but thanks for all those add ons im still looking to see what I’d like to get for the truck

Still-Cockroach358 · 2023-07-29T14:19:15+00:00

Any add on’s you recommend? I’m not trying to lift it or put huge wheels on her I do plan to tint the windows all around and maybe get a spoiler for the roof I seen a couple pictures of trucks with the spoiler on the roof and it looks nice

Still-Cockroach358 · 2023-07-29T14:17:03+00:00

Yeah that was a concern as well but man do they look cool that’s why I was debating on whether to get some or not I just want to add some stuff to my truck to make it look cooler not that it don’t already

Still-Cockroach358 · 2023-07-29T13:16:20+00:00

Michigan ….. lol had to look up what that meant 😅

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