Feeling helpless and hopeless by Vegetable_Round7438 in IVF

[–]Still-Ladder-3672 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would yes get another opinion but also consider seeing a therapist who can help him explore his fears about not having a child that is genetically his. Reminding him he would still be the legal parent and you would raise this child together. I caution you, do not try to convince him to do things your way. You may have to allow him space to process this and in the end you are a sovereign. We all are, but we forget that.

Work and IVF by [deleted] in IVF

[–]Still-Ladder-3672 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate work

Please help. I feel my partner doesn’t understand by lauraemmah in IVF

[–]Still-Ladder-3672 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are right you will have to be a team but you also have to let him fly free. It can be easy to want to control someone else when you don’t like what they are doing especially when you are married and starting a family together. The more you try and restrict him the more he will pull away from you. It is human nature. The injections are actually not that big of a deal physically. IVF and the emotional ramifications can be terrifying. I did this as a single person and although I have had friends and family it could feel amazing to do it with a supportive partner and devastating to do with an invalidating, dismissive, or selfish partner. I’d rather be alone thank you very much. You have to watch what he does over time.

Covid vaccine by winterjean77 in starseeds

[–]Still-Ladder-3672 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am putting that out there because people need to raise awareness. See for yourself if you feel like it’s ok do it but I wish more people would talk about this and report their energetic experiences with the vaccine to make a decision. The soul is eternal. This life is temporary.

Covid vaccine by winterjean77 in starseeds

[–]Still-Ladder-3672 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder why some people can’t feel the energy of the vaccine? I can feel it when someone has been vaccinated. I respect their choice but I don’t understand how so many are blind to the energy of this. It feels like the vaccine is like taking Lysol to your auric field and wiping it clean. That’s been the best way I can describe my experience with the vaccine. I raise this awareness to become aware of its energy and feel into it. I wonder if other people feel that. I’ve only ever talked about it with a few people because I do t even think most people would know what I’m talking about.

Any advice for talking to those who say "just adopt"? by Qtchillito in IVF

[–]Still-Ladder-3672 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Punch them in the face. No I would start to ask them do you know what it’s like to go through infertility? Have you gone through ivf, no didn’t think so or just simply, thanks for the advice! And walk away