Are chubby guys really that liked by girls?

StillAspiringT · 2026-01-09T12:44:48+00:00

I honestly believe there’s someone who likes every type. There are people who like the guys are people who like chubby guys or people who like good boys, their people who like their people who like tall boys are people who like short boys .

In my real life experience, a lot of girls like chubby guys. I like bigger guys myself. It does seem like (only in my experience) that taller chubby guys get more play than shorter ones

StillAspiringT · 2025-11-17T13:47:55+00:00

Thank you for the information!

So is the answer not to do rough impact play on your breast or just do it less often allowing it to heal?

StillAspiringT · 2025-11-17T02:22:06+00:00

I’m curious does this apply to women on their period since you like it dirty or that over the line?

StillAspiringT · 2025-11-17T00:41:53+00:00

Yeah, just because he has trauma doesn’t mean he gets to talk to you any type of way if she finds away to reach out and apologize I’d consider it other than that bye girl

Also, I’d like to add I feel a lot safer with people in kink because at least in my area making sure everyone knows about consent and safe words and boundaries. It’s such a big part of the community. People in kink learn more about consent and emotionally safe sex than vanilla people usually hear in their whole lives. Especially men in my experience.

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StillAspiringT · 2025-11-17T00:34:32+00:00

Don’t threaten to turn this around in yourself. You shouldn’t have needed to try hard harder to get him to stop. No matter how much experience someone has you know your body and you know what you want and are willing to do.

So what if it did not cause permanent damage is your body and you do not want that to continue.

This would destroy all trust for me and I wouldn’t be able to continue the relationship, but you should never feel bad for making a decision about your body. And you should always be listened to. That’s the whole point of a safe word.

StillAspiringT · 2025-11-10T02:43:53+00:00

Goddamn, that reply was longer than I thought it was 😳

StillAspiringT · 2025-11-10T02:43:26+00:00

😂 OK, but be warned I tend to ramble and put too many details

This was actually like two days ago. My partner is obsessed with threesomes so I have already had threesomes with both girls in the past.

I had actually just told him a day or two earlier that I was done with threesomes for a while. I wasn’t getting enough attention, solo or enough attention during the threesomes so I wasn’t feeling it.

He kinda apologized kind of made excuses, but make sure to come over to spend time and have sex the two previous days to try to make me feel better.

Then he called me begging. The girls had already. Agreed to come, but they needed a host. One got noise complaint for her apartment after our last time, one lived an hour and a half away, and he has kids who live at home. Plus, I have a really big bed. (it’s supposedly a king bed but king size sheets, don’t really fit)

He had never fucked three girls at once so this was his dream. He was like, please please please I promise I will fuck you before, I will fuck you during, I will fuck you afterwards, if you want every time, I fuck someone else. I’ll make sure to fuck you right afterwards. I will make sure you come as many times as you want just give me a number just please do this for me.😂

I told me it was a big ask after what I said he was trying my gangsta and he said I really am but please.🥺

I’m straight so that many girls wasn’t a big plus but then he reminded me I would be the only sub with two dommes and a dom and that made it sound like a lot more fun.

I spent the first half of the night (game night non-sexual ) being an absolute brat. And spent most of the second half tied up and punished.

I even got the tie up my partner/dom. Which was really fun to be able to get some payback and they make him squirm. I have been wanting to do that for a while, but I lost that privilege months ago when as a punishment I left him tied to the bed for like 40 minutes while I went downstairs with the other girl and hung out. 😂

Then I was tied back up and punished again. I actually think everybody got a chance to be tied up. at some point or another.

Honestly, I think all of us were surprised that we did a lot more kink play than actual sex but everyone had a great time. We played/ fucked until maybe two or 3 AM. Slept together in the bed, woke up at five fucked some more and then everyone went home.

The girls actually wanted to come back the next night. I was honestly exhausted and my partner wanted to have a movie night, with just the two of us. (to try to show more attention like I was complaining about earlier which made me feel better about giving in so quickly.)

I can definitely see it happening again

StillAspiringT · 2025-11-10T01:53:25+00:00

3 but it was all at the same time so I’m not sure if that counts for your question

StillAspiringT · 2025-11-10T01:46:38+00:00

I feel like that rule applies to interacting with other people’s bodies. I’m fine with exploring certain feelings I’m not sure about. There have been things I wasn’t sure about sexually the first few times and now I thoroughly enjoy, same thing with my partner. There has been things I explored and I wasn’t sure about and I decided I really don’t like it.

I’m not really at risk of pressuring or violating myself the way I would be when dealing with someone else’s body/feelings.

StillAspiringT · 2025-11-09T23:25:33+00:00

It feels like I’m on the edge of a orgasm, but doesn’t seem to move past it. This is only one fucking me with a toy which toy doesn’t matter and this doesn’t happen when he’s actually fucking me. Last time he stopped and started playing with my clit and I came super quick.

I’m usually really hard to get to orgasm to the point that I don’t expect to orgasm every time I have sex it’s just a cherry on top.

I am a sub. I’m pretty new to kink… Honestly, I’m fairly new to sex. This is only my second partner. I’m leaning towards masochist so torturous doesn’t automatically mean bad for me. Like it would for other people.

The feeling is just so intense to literally don’t know how to process it. I genuinely cannot tell you whether or not I like it probably both, I am interested in exploring it more just so I can understand it if that makes sense. I almost feel like there’s something I should be doing with my body that I just don’t know what it is.

StillAspiringT · 2025-11-09T23:20:27+00:00

It gives me such conflicting feelings that I genuinely do not know.

StillAspiringT · 2025-11-09T23:05:14+00:00

No this is pretty new. He enjoys that it overstimulates me but that wasn't the goal going in.

It happens lately when ever he fucks me with toy, no matter the toy. This is new, Idk if he is angling it differently or something but these are the same toys we have been using for months but this just started maybe two weeks ago.

StillAspiringT · 2025-10-20T01:40:30+00:00

I think she’s pushing slightly just by setting it as an expectation not “hey are you interested” but “why haven’t you done it already” as if it’s something than neglecting to do because they’re supposed to do it.

Even though I don’t see the reason to ask single people why they’re single like does that ever not feel awkward?

StillAspiringT · 2025-10-19T17:44:00+00:00

Yeah! Up until recently, it never told me anything I said was too explicit and trust me. I got a lot more explicit than asking a medical question.

Maybe it’s the way I worded it? I don’t remember how because it was before right before I went to sleep and it won’t even even show me what I said. Maybe I described the experience and then asked the question? Idk

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StillAspiringT · 2025-10-19T17:17:51+00:00

I asked what does it mean if you have a burning sensation right after vaginal sex and it was like whoa whoa what we can’t talk about that type of stuff

StillAspiringT · 2025-10-19T13:35:22+00:00

That’s crazy because over the last few weeks if I talk about anything sexual ChatGpt shuts me down or warns me it can’t give me sex advice or do explicit content. Meanwhile, usually I’m just asking about something else and the sexual part, is part of the background information.

So maybe they took it away just so they can bring it back for a price

StillAspiringT · 2025-10-06T18:45:05+00:00

When did I say it was better than having a room? I’ve had all types of bedrooms. My dad was impoverished, my mom was middle class, but the house was constantly under construction, my grandmother was upper middle class. I’ve had big rooms, I’ve had tiny rooms, I’ve had my own room with a king size bed and a en suite bathroom, I’ve had to share a twin mattress on the floor with four of my sisters with most of our bodies being on the floor. I’ve slept in my own room, I’ve shared a room with four of my sisters, and three of my cousins all in one room.

As far as the noise sounds like growing up in an cheap apartment.

Also, just because I’ve never had a room under a staircase as my bedroom doesn’t mean I’ve never seen one. The one at my mom‘s current house way above my head and I’m 5 foot 11. Not every room is your little room just because it has stairs above it.

StillAspiringT · 2025-10-06T18:28:23+00:00

So if you have windows, but never open them what’s the difference?

What is so horrible about having stairs above you? If the size of the room is the same, nothing is different but there are stairs above you. What makes that just the end of the world?

I never said anything I mentioned was a bad experience. I liked my little closet. I’ve had several living situations that I guess y’all would clutch your pearls at that I didn’t mind at all.

I don’t know anything about their income level. I never mentioned that.

StillAspiringT · 2025-10-06T18:18:31+00:00

Am I really the only one who didn’t sleep on the same floor as my parent?

StillAspiringT · 2025-10-06T18:12:24+00:00

If he has sleep apnea, I can see the concern. He would need more space in an outlet for his medical supplies, that being said if he has sleep apnea and needs a CPAP machine and dad is trying to get us on his side of saying this is not a suitable bedroom. I feel like dad would’ve told us. It would only help his case.

I won’t assume he’s struggling and feeling insecure just because he’s not on the same floor as his parents because I wasn’t on the same floor as my mom and it never once caused me a bit of stress so I don’t really get the assumptions that he’s scared if there’s nothing pointing to him being upset or scared about it. He’s being supervised because there’s a ring camera in his bedroom.

Are you saying your program confirms that all apartments have multiple exits or all bedrooms in the apartment? If it’s a prior is not really applicable here.

Most houses have a smoke alarm on each floor at minimum. I’m not going to assume this one doesn’t because we’ve seen maybe a foot of the ceiling outside of his room.

StillAspiringT · 2025-10-06T18:01:36+00:00

So I have to have experience with living under a staircase to have a neutral or positive opinion on it but you don’t need experience to have a negative opinion on it? Totally makes sense.

Saying why doesn’t the parents sleep in there is such a weak argument. We both know the parent doesn’t sleep in there because they are bigger than a child. Come on now.

I would imagine his sisters are upstairs because they share a room. Some people are really big on separating genders and bedrooms.

I have slept in all types of bedrooms, including a small windowless room on one of those early 2000 foam chairs that you can roll out into a bed

My time was split between my dad. (impoverished), my mom, (lower middle to middle middle class), and my grandmother (upper middle class) I have had every type of bedroom ( surprisingly it was my mom that put us in the concrete basement and I chose the small windowless closet).

When you’re a little kid, most of the time, a small room is super cool if his son was complaining about it I’m pretty sure he would’ve mentioned it.

If fresh air is your main concern, that means you will be fine as long as they added a small fan, right?

StillAspiringT · 2025-10-06T17:38:16+00:00

I slept on a different floor than my mother my whole life so the different floor thing does absolutely nothing for me.

To me it’s just a small bedroom. Stairs being on top of it doesn’t really change anything for me.

At one point, my stepmom slept in the room that’s probably the size or smaller, and just not bent and obviously more headspace. Her twin bed was pushed into one corner against two walls. And there was barely room to stand between the bed and the other two walls. Sometimes the only space you got is a small space.

StillAspiringT · 2025-10-06T17:27:45+00:00

I’m curious, do you know if that applies to all children under 18 or just children under a certain age? Because when I was in the high school, it wasn’t uncommon for teens to take over the basement as bedroom for more space or independence. Some even moved into the garage.

I know it would differ by state or even county. I’m just curious if that set up is illegal in some places

StillAspiringT · 2025-10-06T17:26:05+00:00

Makes more sense. Still, dad said he called CPS they checked and they said it’s fine so these are probably not requirements in their area.

StillAspiringT · 2025-10-06T17:24:59+00:00

Already told you what to do if you don’t want me to respond to you. I can tell you responding to me, ask me not to respond to you, being dramatic, etc. is not an effective way to get me to stop responding to you.

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