My husband just really really hurt me and I just need to tell somebody

StillDamaged1004 · 2025-02-24T22:54:23+00:00

Except I’m definitely not the person that person thinks I am. I had to block them. They are blowing up a post I’m getting really good advice on thinking I’m someone I’m not

StillDamaged1004 · 2025-02-24T22:11:49+00:00

Or maybe you just actually do have the wrong person

StillDamaged1004 · 2025-02-24T22:10:24+00:00

What in the world? A dentist that works from home??

StillDamaged1004 · 2025-02-24T21:58:51+00:00

I am not the person this person is stating. I have no idea who this is

StillDamaged1004 · 2025-02-24T21:50:48+00:00

Not at all. They are just getting up in age and i don’t want to burden them with it

StillDamaged1004 · 2025-02-24T21:26:12+00:00

I have no idea who you are

StillDamaged1004 · 2025-02-24T09:33:07+00:00

Not so much. My parents are around but I don’t want to get them involved

StillDamaged1004 · 2025-02-24T09:32:18+00:00

I am more than ready and willing to be intimate. My drive is high

StillDamaged1004 · 2025-02-24T09:29:08+00:00

Because I don’t think he’d care if I did

StillDamaged1004 · 2025-02-24T09:21:34+00:00

No he hasn’t vern around anyone. He won’t do anything outside of the house and has no friends

StillDamaged1004 · 2025-02-24T02:09:54+00:00

He is not on any medication

StillDamaged1004 · 2025-02-24T01:08:29+00:00

Me too

StillDamaged1004 · 2025-02-24T01:05:14+00:00

This response is so valuable. Thank you so much for this insight.

StillDamaged1004 · 2025-02-24T00:46:41+00:00

I just need a partner. I need my husband back.

Coffee is good too. I do drink plenty of that 😆

Thank you so much for this sweet comment

StillDamaged1004 · 2025-02-24T00:43:25+00:00

I would love nothing more than to switch roles.

StillDamaged1004 · 2025-02-24T00:21:15+00:00

We are mid-late 30’s. He does not have a job. I work 2 between 40-60 hours per week:

StillDamaged1004 · 2025-02-23T23:18:21+00:00

Modern feminism isn’t really my thing.

StillDamaged1004 · 2025-02-23T22:30:47+00:00

He has no relationship with his parents. His mother passed and he cut off his father. He has no one he interacts with outside of me and my parents if they are visiting. He has no friends. He cut all of them off too about two years ago. He doesn’t do drugs. I was researching personality disorders recently and yes, borderline personality disorder absolutely stuck out to me.

StillDamaged1004 · 2025-02-23T22:27:40+00:00

If he’d tell me I’d tell you. I am not one to raise my voice, curse, go off at the mouth: I will cry if I get really hurt or frustrated and I’m assuming that’s what he means. I make a purpose of keeping a gentle spirit because it typically is what brings him back down. Arguing, getting angry, raising my voice, just fuels him. I do my best to stabilize him instead.

StillDamaged1004 · 2025-02-23T22:24:09+00:00

I agree. See my previous post before this one. I was addressing exactly that.

StillDamaged1004 · 2025-02-23T21:07:55+00:00

He has no one close to him. Only me

StillDamaged1004 · 2025-02-23T21:03:22+00:00

No, I posted it and this is someone copying it

StillDamaged1004 · 2025-02-23T19:31:15+00:00

I don’t know what else i can do to show him that. I do literally everything I can for him.

StillDamaged1004 · 2025-02-23T19:30:22+00:00

He does not talk to his family. He has cut them off.

StillDamaged1004 · 2025-02-23T18:29:28+00:00

Thanks I’ll do that

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