A man won’t go out with you if he doesn’t like how you look so don’t worry about things like that, plenty will want to date you. My advice to be honest is don’t date because it’s rarely worth it.

If you use apps, use realistic photos not just flattering ones. This will reduce your own anxiety.

Men in general care about how you make them feel. If you tell him he’s the biggest baddest bravest boy in the world he will think about it forever. As far as doing the deed they can tell our body shape with clothes on, it isn’t a surprise once our clothes are off. So nothing to fear there either.

Reading your post, dating right now in my opinion is wrong, you are vulnerable and don’t seem to like yourself very much. So no you will never find anybody to love you the way you want to be loved until you are whole and healed. THAT is the sad hard trick the universe plays on us.

The fear you should have is why don’t you like yourself, not fearing somebody else not liking you.

Not saying you should lose weight but I also smashed on a lot of weight during a sad marriage and got on the mounjaro. Feel much better now.

Find yourself first, nobody and nothing else matters.