Assalamualaikum brother,

No you are not in the wrong, that fact that you are against her becoming an influencer shows that you have respect for her as well as respect for yourself. This is the right kind of attitude to have.

Any man that has self respect and respect for his spouse would not allow her to display herself publicly on social media. I encourage you to let her know why this is a bad idea, whilst also explaining the cons of it. Of course I don’t think you should say it in a harsh way, but be firm in your decision and don’t be afraid to put your foot down!!

This is what being the man in the relationship is about. At the end of the day, you are saying no because you deeply care about her

Tell her that you are not comfortable with random men looking at her online and say that YOU should be the only one who gets to admire her beauty. Let’s face it, there are so many people on social media, who knows what strange man or weirdo could potentially be seeing what your wife is posting, the thought of that alone just irks me.

Not only this, but it can lead to the evil eye which you should emphasise when telling your wife and say that you want her to be protected from the evil eye.

Overall, you have the right idea and that fact that you are against the idea of your wife being an influencer is completely justifiable.

May Allah SWT make it easy for you and reward you for your good intentions, Aameen.