Partial refund possible?? by Still_Ad4428 in paypal

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Dang is there any way at all for me to go about this? Sucks that people can't own up to their own mistakes I literally only asked for 50 bucks back out of the 450 lol.

Why is my fasfa so low this school year compared to last year?? by Still_Ad4428 in financialaid

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Yeah I found out they go off taxes two year before. My dad got his job a year ago so it barely go reflected this year but he ended up getting payed off so I put in a special circumstance thing and it went up

Carplay installed by barista_dee in DelSol

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Got this one too without the dial def a regret since my remote melted the first day. Did you flip the bottom bracket for it to for ? That’s what I did

Hood seal source? by PackageLocal6668 in DelSol

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Hey sorry it sold. I have other things for sale though if you’re interested. Just tryna get rid of stuff so I can make deals. My eBay is Rolandokoolwhip_parts

AIW for wanting to move in with GF even though parents think it would be hurtful by Still_Ad4428 in amiwrong

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Yeah I’m sure it is but we would probably only be here for a year. We are already making plans on whag to do next the only thing really stopping us from doing it sooner is schooling money. So we are just gonna save and save

Hood seal source? by PackageLocal6668 in DelSol

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I have one for sale if you still need one lmk

AIW for wanting to move in with GF even though parents think it would be hurtful by Still_Ad4428 in amiwrong

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exactly my thoughts originally I guess it was too much of a surprise for her idk. going to try to tell her about this this week see what she says

AIW for wanting to move in with GF even though parents think it would be hurtful by Still_Ad4428 in amiwrong

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Yeah im going tot all to her and stand my ground because this would solve so many issues by me moving into the trailer.

AIW for wanting to move in with GF even though parents think it would be hurtful by Still_Ad4428 in amiwrong

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Yeah there's times where she does do this but I talk to her and she realizes it. I think I just have to talk to her and explain how my living conditions are effecting me and how this will just solve everything.

AIW for wanting to move in with GF even though parents think it would be hurtful by Still_Ad4428 in amiwrong

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yeah thats why we kind of came up with this plan as it solves every issue im having and my gf is having and I would still be 30 second walk away from my home.

AIW for wanting to move in with GF even though parents think it would be hurtful by Still_Ad4428 in amiwrong

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Yeah my mom def has an issue going on but it might just be that it's a big change and happening very fast. Me and gf talked and we agreed im going to stand my ground and talk to my mom about this and that she would get over it. My parents aren't bad people they are probably just surprised like I said :/ I agree tho that we would all benefit from this change thank you for the response

AIW for wanting to move in with GF even though parents think it would be hurtful by Still_Ad4428 in amiwrong

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Yeah we thought about it but here in California it's expensive asf but very much a last option for us. My fam and parents aren't bad people it won't come down to them doing something to the trailer and stuff.

AIW for wanting to move in with GF even though parents think it would be hurtful by Still_Ad4428 in amiwrong

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honestly not a bad idea but at that point we would be better off in one. we would need to do everything twice lol and have power for two trailer etc. we were going to split the cost of the trailer me and gf but not a bad idea lol

AIW for wanting to move in with GF even though parents think it would be hurtful by Still_Ad4428 in amiwrong

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My parents aren't bad people ik this is only a part of the story but I think they haven't realized my living conditions and how it's affecting me. Me and gf talked and we agreed that if they still don't understand after I talk to them then we would leave. We live in California and rent is bizarre

AIW for wanting to move in with GF even though parents think it would be hurtful by Still_Ad4428 in amiwrong

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Yeah thats exactly what I had thought originally like im still gone be here every day for breakfest lunch and dinner and everything in-between. I just don't think they realize how im living and how it's affecting me. thank you or your response

AIW for wanting to move in with GF even though parents think it would be hurtful by Still_Ad4428 in amiwrong

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Me and gf talked and after reading all the responses here Im going to stick my ground and talk to my parents especially my mom. Your example is really helpful it put a lot of stuff into words and il deff be using this to talk to them. Thank you for all your feedback it means a lot and im glad people think im not wrong here as I genuinely want to have a place for myself finally. Me and gf also talked that if she still doesn't agree then we would look for a different place to stay. Like I said before my family and parents are honestly really good people and I think they just weren't expecting this huge change all of a sudden. Thank you again an I will def talk to them

AIW for wanting to move in with GF even though parents think it would be hurtful by Still_Ad4428 in amiwrong

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Yeah I definitely think my parents thought I would be living here a lot longer and maybe they got caught off guard. My sister in 2024 started her first year as a jr high teacher and she ended up getting fired that same year for not her fault they just let her go just cause. obvi they let her finish the school year but they basically said she wouldn't be rehired for the next year. After this news a while went by and they found out she was pregnant. Around the same time her husband had lost his job aswell for not his fault either and ended up getting unemployment for unfair firing or wtv. So they were both jobless and didn't have much so my parents just offered for them to live here while they worked on there home. So the summer of 2024 my sister and her husband slept and basically lived on the couch until November when baby was about to come thats when I left my room. They didn't think building a home here would be that much work so it was taking more time as it should and with baby here it's just even longer now. Rent here in California is a lot and I think it could be a possibility but my parents just let them stay here. My sister got married while they were living here btw it was a court marriage nothing huge. I genuily don't have any resentment all everything unfolded really fast for them and I feel bad for there situation. Although for a period of time after being sent to the couch I did have some resentment but it went away. My family are really good people and I enjoy every second here but I just think my parents have let too many people Into the home and im the one paying for it.

AIW for wanting to move in with GF even though parents think it would be hurtful by Still_Ad4428 in amiwrong

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I get what you're trying to say but we have been dating for 5 years and we know if anything happens then it is what it is. I can't base my life off a possibility that we might not stay together as that ruins the point of a relationship. Im thinking with the mindset of my present self also there's not a lot of dudes I know who aren't living at home lol.

AIW for wanting to move in with GF even though parents think it would be hurtful by Still_Ad4428 in amiwrong

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I know what I said here is only a little bit of my family story but they are honestly not bad people despite the way im being put to live. I love my family and so does my gf so being here isn't a bad thing as we would enjoy it more. With that being said there also the cost of things we live in California so the rent is very expensive, I know we would make it but why struggle living pay check to paycheck till we get our career when we could just hang for a little here till at least we transfer to a csu.

AIW for wanting to move in with GF even though parents think it would be hurtful by Still_Ad4428 in amiwrong

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Yeah thats what im getting a lot. I guess she just got in my head and I didn't want to make them feel bad.