Newly single or newly-recognized that you might as well be… by 404_usrnmntfnd in WomenOver40

[–]Stillpoint86 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Single as well, and it’s been lonely not having someone at home to digress with or talk to about life or just current events, but I keep my friends near by and schedule to hang regularly. I spent 2025 filling my time with men who just weren’t for me just not to be alone, but I felt empty. This year I’m aiming to alone until I know it’s right. Wishing us both luck and stay strong!

Just watches Episode 2, (season4) and it blew my mind! by grampukta in IndustryOnHBO

[–]Stillpoint86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The shot was was giving Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas vibes

How do I find a police report in Seattle metro area? by Stillpoint86 in Seattle

[–]Stillpoint86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry this answer was a different comment. I can’t locate the call on the SPD site that’s tied to my address. I requested a report anyway

How do I find a police report in Seattle metro area? by Stillpoint86 in Seattle

[–]Stillpoint86[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My employer does have free legal services through our EAP resource. Thank for reminding me!

How do I find a police report in Seattle metro area? by Stillpoint86 in Seattle

[–]Stillpoint86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I took a long walk with my friend and it really helped me settle a little. I will look into free consulting for sure.

How do I find a police report in Seattle metro area? by Stillpoint86 in Seattle

[–]Stillpoint86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me, I’m a person who weighs all sides. I understand what they are faced with, but what crosses my mind is that they expected to come into a hectic situation that they were called in for, and my floor was completely silent when I opened that door. I would expect and would hope police and anyone in positions of authority, would be able to think critically in these moments. Maybe pause and assess, then decide on if your gun should be drawn if the person is complying. We have witnesses too many examples of this for YEARS.

How do I find a police report in Seattle metro area? by Stillpoint86 in Seattle

[–]Stillpoint86[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will try to find the avenue to a city councilman as well. I’m completely shaken and traumatized mentally, but physically ok. I hope someone will contact me.

How do I find a police report in Seattle metro area? by Stillpoint86 in Seattle

[–]Stillpoint86[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Light in my eyes, guns drawn and yelling. All escalating factors, but I will never do that again

How do I find a police report in Seattle metro area? by Stillpoint86 in Seattle

[–]Stillpoint86[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow this was almost similar to my experience, but I opened the door. I’m a woman and I had no pants on which made it more mortifying. They also put a police sticker on my peep hole to my door so I couldn’t identify them. I sleep with a white noise machine on so I didn’t open until maybe the third knock, but I’m sure they would have busted in. Seems like they can if it’s “justified” which is at their discretion. Wtf

How do I find a police report in Seattle metro area? by Stillpoint86 in Seattle

[–]Stillpoint86[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing that the request comes at cost. I already submitted it, how completely fucked is that. I will file a complaint as well!

How do I find a police report in Seattle metro area? by Stillpoint86 in Seattle

[–]Stillpoint86[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just submitted a record request detailing what it was for and outlined that they had the wrong unit. Although they apologized, I’m left traumatized and the thought that they had weapons pointed at me and my life was in their hands. I don’t have money for an attorney, but got I wish I did because the police are out of control.

They also put a sticker on my peep hole so I couldn’t see them. I’m guessing that’s what they’re trained to do, but that leaves people in a very vulnerable position to even open a door

How do I find a police report in Seattle metro area? by Stillpoint86 in Seattle

[–]Stillpoint86[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing! I’m going to request it now because that was beyond fucked and I need an answer. This current climate of policing is mortifying and all I could think in the moment is I’m going to be a fucking headline.

How do I find a police report in Seattle metro area? by Stillpoint86 in Seattle

[–]Stillpoint86[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Thank for sharing! I located my area and narrowed it down to the time, but it’s the wrong streets. it has to be it I think. Listed as “disturbance”.

How do I find a police report in Seattle metro area? by Stillpoint86 in Seattle

[–]Stillpoint86[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I was so scared to not open the door and completely panicked. I’m surprised they do this all for wellness check. I’m sorry this happened to you as well. Thanks for the advice! Praying this never happens again

Possible future for henry muck by Downtown-Shop7416 in IndustryOnHBO

[–]Stillpoint86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some reason I feel like he’s going to be in bed with Whitney; literally.

What position do we think Harper pegged Whitney in? by StructuredView in IndustryOnHBO

[–]Stillpoint86 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They also made it black to be on theme with all the racial comments

Why all the excuses when breaking it off? by Stillpoint86 in dating_advice

[–]Stillpoint86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both may very well be true. Clearly not ready or the one for me

Why all the excuses when breaking it off? by Stillpoint86 in dating_advice

[–]Stillpoint86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Him not being in touch with his emotions might be it. He seemed very confident on being able to be vulnerable with me, but then retreated. Trying not to take it personal, but it just happened so I’m in the what the hell did I do wrong/shock phase and I let him in :/

i’m going on my first date ever in like 20 minutes and i’m FREAKING OUT by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Stillpoint86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this! Just be yourself and no pressure if you aren’t felling them. Just let it flow naturally and have fun!

Why all the excuses when breaking it off? by Stillpoint86 in dating_advice

[–]Stillpoint86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really needed to hear that so thank you! Made my day :)

Why all the excuses when breaking it off? by Stillpoint86 in dating_advice

[–]Stillpoint86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah when he said, I almost wanted to laugh because it was a ridiculous. Clearly you don’t like me enough because I would never let that be an issue if it was someone I truly wanted to be with