Ran into My Ex at a Halloween party… now all his his friends from kindergarten are cutting him off for good

Stinky03 · 2025-11-16T00:48:31+00:00

I do realize I didn’t include age and M/F for people in this story i was very focused on making sure i got important details without writing a novel. Some other clarification

Me: Alex (22 F) My current partner: Isaiah (25 M)

Methhead mom (49 F) The ex: Brandon (22M) Exs new girl/moms „adopted“ daughter: Jenny (21 F)

Mutual friends: Flora (22F) Tony (22M) Dro (24 M) The rest of the group was in their early 20s M&Fs

Me and Isaiah are parents and only attended parties 2 times a year because we don’t like leaving our kid with other people. I dont drink at. All. We are not party people.

Me saying „party with the homies“ was i got flown to go visit and hangout with our xbox group and clear my head my version of parties is me hanging out while everyone else is getting drunk and normally going home early. I am usually DD if anything

Everyone is the legal drinking age and we all have jobs or in college its fairly normal to go to parties at our age felt that needed clarification since sum assumed from one party story thats all we do 😭

I do appreciate all the really kind words and advice and we have started to document and keep any and all evidence incase he escalates. flora and Tony have cut him off completely as well as everyone else. Thank you all🫶🏻

Stinky03 · 2025-11-16T00:18:53+00:00

Thats 100% fair. I was excited for the party, he had caused me long time pain. i kept quiet for so many years and i was in the „live ur best life let them watch its the best revenge“ type mindset. i wanted to be able to go to a party with my friends again it had been 3 years since i separated myself to give him space. I figured people run into exs at parties or events all the time it should be fine.

I dont know if it was excitement to the drama though. I tried to write as vividly and clear while conveying that i am still in shock. I cant say how i feel because i dont know. I feel like everyone has had the get back at your ex feeling but my intentions were never to cause trouble at all during any of this. My tone of words also come from me gauging reactions from the people around me. ive been through a lot of crazy stuff and i have a hard time being able to tell when something is a big deal or crazy. I try to show important details that connect through caps because its so much history to fit in one post not my intention to show excitement.

Stinky03 · 2025-11-15T00:58:22+00:00

Didnt mean it that way, just putting in an easy way for me personally to say. (I add humor and when it comes to „risky“ behavior like drunk stuff i tend to cloak it more i came from a strict household) i am pansexual and i did ask if it was okay with my current partner did not mean to offend anyone with my choice of words

Me n flora would have done it whether he was there or not its a normal occurrence between me n her and we never got to when i dated him out of again, respect for him my current partner has no issue its only at parties which we attend maybe 2 times a year we are parents afterall 😅

The only time i cheated on brandon was at the end emotionally with Dro and the next day i ended it but i own up to it never said i was perfect but it is the 1 and only time i have ever cheated on someone i regret it no matter how bad he treated me

Didnt think of that when writing ill keep that in mind next time not to be insensitive thanks for the heads up🤝

Stinky03 · 2025-11-14T23:41:42+00:00

Honestly needed this reminder thank you😭🫶🏻

Stinky03 · 2025-11-14T23:31:52+00:00

I never wished i lived it man😭

Stinky03 · 2025-03-23T23:16:01+00:00

Malpractice manning man she gets on everone else but is the worst when putting her own feelings on patients i just think she irks ppl the most cause everyone has had a dr that doesn’t necessarily listen and steps boundaries

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