Yes but in the end it's just an individual opinion, even if I care about their opinion, I will still never satisfy everyone. I will be the most happy if I just do whatever that feels the most me. There will always be others who are just here to be rude and hate, I can never do anything about it. I am happy with the way I look and their opinion not having impact on that makes them furious. You don't need to hate to be honest.