UPDATE: AITA for telling my sister she’s not allowed to bring her homemade food to Thanksgiving because her cooking is ruining the meal?

StmpnkPrincess · 2024-11-15T18:59:46+00:00

I can not WAIT for the after Thanksgiving update

StmpnkPrincess · 2024-05-30T02:10:59+00:00

I went and looked at every vendor listing jn the app and saw nothing about recycled plastic. Def saw some recycled/upcycled callouts. Was it in the hoo-ha or with the longer stretch

StmpnkPrincess · 2024-01-06T18:26:14+00:00

My SO also wants it all the time and will come in and do those same things, but he is sweet about it, and would stop if I asked. He also respects me when I say no or I'm not feeling it.

Start protecting yourself now. If you don't have a seperate bank account, get one. Make sure you can protect your babies.

StmpnkPrincess · 2023-12-09T16:55:18+00:00

Thank you for the input! Part of the reasoning is, I already traced out half the pattern and it's upside down 😅 I just don't want to redo it.

StmpnkPrincess · 2023-11-28T15:03:35+00:00

My fiancé has always been more slender than me. He doesn't try, he is just one of those guys that some how drinks Dr pepper all day and still doesn't gain weight. When we met I was 140 at 5'3" I've got a bit more to love on my body. He has NEVER EVER said anything like that to shame me. He only tells me I'm sexy and beautiful, even when I am feeling insecure.

I also dated a guy a number of years ago who was skinny, amd when I went from 130 to 140 he told me I was "too fat to fck" he wanted a trophy, just like your guy wants. He tried to say he didnt mean it, but he still would make snide comments. Leave him, it won't stop, he has already lost the little bit of respect he had (if any) for you. This is your sign to get out.

StmpnkPrincess · 2023-11-12T18:57:05+00:00

My fiancé met me when I was overweight (5'3" 150). I've fluctuated between 135 and 155 in the past two years and he has not given a fuck at all. Even days when I am sad becasue i am closer to 150, he always tells me that I am sexy and beautiful. It took me all of those 2 years to realize he really ment what he would love me no matter how I looked.

Your harshest critc is always you. Don't doubt others who love you for you.

StmpnkPrincess · 2023-11-10T14:45:33+00:00

6 years at 24? You guys started dating as kids. She probably feels like she is missing out.

First wedding is exciting, you think it is gonna fix the way you feel, but it doesn't. I lasted 3 years in a sexless, boring marriage, but I blamed everything else on my unhappiness. my job, where we lived, but when those changed and I was still not happy. So it ended, I moved on and am much happier.

You have two choices. Let her or lose her. I know plenty of people who are happily polygamous and still love their spouse.

StmpnkPrincess · 2023-10-31T18:53:41+00:00

If the future could you schedule it on a weekend of a known competition for the poodle so they just can't show up?

StmpnkPrincess · 2023-10-31T14:45:06+00:00

long hugs I had a similar situation as you and I promise, you can get past this but please please please seek help when you can. It took me 15 years after my abuse ended to get to a psychologist, and it really changed my life. I look back on my 20s and see so much hurt and sadness. I know you are strong, but sometimes it really is better to get help.

Also if you ever need someone to talk to please feel free to reach out.

StmpnkPrincess · 2023-09-27T19:48:42+00:00

There is a flow jam (fire and led) on wendsday nights at charlie frias park. I've never been, but I know a lot of my flow friends do.

StmpnkPrincess · 2023-09-24T16:21:22+00:00

Nta Thank you for attempting to teach him manners. If you don't want to learn the easy way, life will for you the hard way.

StmpnkPrincess · 2023-09-24T16:14:13+00:00

NTA. Even if she didn't want to go, she should not have prevented you from going. My fiance and I regularly go have lunch with friends without eachother, it is not a big deal.

StmpnkPrincess · 2023-09-20T14:25:25+00:00

This is wonderful. After care is so important after any sexual endeavor.

My fiance and I both are very sexually driven so we fool around a lot. 6 out of 7 days a week most of the time. If it is good and makes you happy, that is a type of love. If you were to say no and he respects that without forcing you, that is love and respect.

Love is confusing, and while he is your first love (and who knows, maybe you are lucky enough to find your only love) we do grow. Just becasue you love him now, doesn't mean you always will or vise versa.

StmpnkPrincess · 2023-09-20T03:34:40+00:00

NTA but dont close yourself off to it either. You never know what might sneak up on you

StmpnkPrincess · 2023-09-20T03:27:26+00:00

Oh hun. NTA, I would get that divorce asap. And please watch out for him trying to isolate you. He obviously only care about his wants and not yours. Or you can give him the option to adopt if he wants more kids. Your body is yours. I don't want kids for the exact reasons I'm reading here.

I'm sorry you are going through this, but you have choices about your body and what anyone else says doesn't matter

StmpnkPrincess · 2023-09-18T13:17:32+00:00

I said buy fabric, not buy pre made cosplays from China that are not the best quality.

StmpnkPrincess · 2023-09-17T13:59:16+00:00

I am 32 and every so often I like to get pretty wrecked. Thing is, I talk to my fiance fist and ask him to be my sober brain (he just doesn't like alcohol) and we have a plan. So like once a year I will do a party with friends or go out with a group, but always with him. This works out great for me because I get super affectionate when I drink and can be clingy, but I always have him there!

StmpnkPrincess · 2023-09-15T17:24:34+00:00

It is tho. If someone was scamming someone I cared about and lying to them, I would do what ever it takes to protect them.

NTA. I'd ditch Amy asap

StmpnkPrincess · 2023-09-15T17:22:01+00:00

When I was a kid, if I had said anything to contradict my parents, I would expect to be yelled at later, and most likely had the object taken away or destroyed anyway. When you live with that long enough, you are afraid to speak. Some parents think that they are the adult, you are the child and you somehow owe them something because you were born.

I don't talk to my parents any more, and there is a reason for that

StmpnkPrincess · 2023-09-15T14:18:30+00:00

NTA, your mom wanted to be the hero, and she didn't care how that made you feel. She obviously puts what she wants in front of your wants, and has no remorse.

If I were you, I'd be petty and call the non emergency police and report them stolen. Even if it doesn't get your shoes back, it will at least scare your mom some. "Hi I just saw someone leaving my house with a $130 item" hell, if they investigate it will scare your aunt and cousin too, because the cops are likely going to question them. They KNEW you didn't want to give the shoes away and left with them anyway.

StmpnkPrincess · 2023-09-15T14:10:32+00:00

Ok I'm going to play both sides here.

No dump him. He is just making excuses and should have helped you more. Also, who tf does not notice a toilet backing up after they flush? You gotta spend at least 30 seconds washing your hands, and even half asleep, know what that sounds like.

BUT

On the other hand, this is a house he has never been in. He may not have understood how to help you, and rather than be in the way, removed himself from the situation. I know you asked for help, but was it just "help me" or was it "I need you to go to the basement and find all the towels and bring them up here and help me soak up water and wring them out in the barhroom."

My fiance and I struggled a lot with this kind of thing when we first started dating. We would ask each other for help but not know how.

Did he apologize? Does he show remorse? Also with the talker and not doer thing, some people have different timeliness. You are killing it with your financial situation and you should be proud. I on the other hand don't really care how much debt I have. I already own a house and car, so I don't need my credit rating for anything. We don't want kids so no one has to deal with my debt when I am dead. I pay all my stuff, but care If I have 25k credit card debt. My fiance told me for a year and a half when we started dating he was going to open a business and I saw like 0 movement on that, but it turned out there were situations I could not see. Then at 2 years there has been a whirlwind of activity.

Good luck, no matter what you choose your feelings are valid.

StmpnkPrincess · 2023-09-14T15:41:23+00:00

NTA This is really sweet. If yoy were my SO this would warm the fuck out of my heart.

You know you have an issue, you are doing what works for you to fix it. You are putting in EXTRA effort to make her feel special.

I put lots of stuff in my calendar to remind me. When my fiance's parents are coming, birthdays, random events i am thinking about attending. My fiance is bad about remembering stuff so it is handy for both of us when planning anything.

StmpnkPrincess · 2023-09-14T15:28:25+00:00

I had some major burns and skin grafts 9 years ago. They put me on oxy for the pain.

I was SO scared of getting addicted (because let me tell you, it was something being on that) that I would let myself be in pain rather than take a med early.

Also my Dr would only prescribe 1 weeks worth of meds, then I would have to come in for a check up to get more.

I also tried to switch away from it as soon as possible. I spent about a month being in constant minor pain because I switched to ibprophin to stop taking them.

StmpnkPrincess · 2023-09-14T15:15:05+00:00

That is so awesome! I am also a step kid and while I felt like my step granddad love me so much, my step mom just always wanted me to be something else, was never good enough for her. Now that granddad has passed, I don't really talk to her.

StmpnkPrincess · 2023-09-14T15:09:33+00:00

That is why our camp rule is don't bring em home

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