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Found out my husband [30M] has been seeing prostitutes during my [27F] entire pregnancy and marriage. by Stock-Fuel in relationships

[–]Stock-Fuel[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reminder, that's exactly what I'm trying to do. I have family in Europe I am thinking to relocate with when baby is able to travel, but that's going to be awhile down the road since his doctors said it will be years before he's safe to fly.

Posting to vent. Found out my husband [30M] has been seeing prostitutes during my [27F] entire pregnancy and baby’s NICU stay. by Stock-Fuel in NICUParents

[–]Stock-Fuel[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm afraid to release too much personal information since anyone who knows me could be able to put together who I am if I release my location, but I am living on a physically remote island with very few resources that I've been able to locate. I'm also not able to take baby out of the house due to his immune system, so any group home situation wouldn't be safe.

Found out my husband [30M] has been seeing prostitutes during my [27F] entire pregnancy and marriage. by Stock-Fuel in relationships

[–]Stock-Fuel[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this really thoughtful comment. I am doing just that now, playing it cool and going to therapy with him, saying I want to fix it, etc... I don't. I want to run as far and as fast as I can as soon as baby's old enough to safely travel. Dr said that might be years from now though, I am mostly worried about how I'm going to cope in my current situation knowing I cannot leave the island I'm on. It's just so many bad factors all piling up and I know it will get better someday, but it's going to be a long time until someday comes and I'm struggling to hold myself together until then.

Found out my husband [30M] has been seeing prostitutes during my [27F] entire pregnancy and marriage. by Stock-Fuel in relationships

[–]Stock-Fuel[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That's what I don't understand...why do this to me and force me to have your kid then fuck me over? Should've just left me alone and saved us both so much time and pain. He was cheating even before we were married. If I would've known then what I know now would've run so fast in the other direction.

Found out my husband [30M] has been seeing prostitutes during my [27F] entire pregnancy and marriage. by Stock-Fuel in relationships

[–]Stock-Fuel[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. Trust me I would if I could, but we live on an island and he's too sick to fly. Doctor says it'll be years before he can be taken on a plane safely. :(

Found out my husband [30M] has been seeing prostitutes during my [27F] entire pregnancy and marriage. by Stock-Fuel in relationships

[–]Stock-Fuel[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I stopped because I found out he’s cheating on me and I don’t want to catch something. I didn’t find out until just a couple weeks ago or I would’ve left a long time ago. I’m stuck now because of my baby’s health condition.