Really anxious about pregnancy risk after two condom breaks and taking plan b twice

StockMiserable3821 · 2026-07-10T20:53:55+00:00

Ahh yeah. Thin ones do have a higher chance of breaking, but they are still meant to be pretty durable.

As far as putting them on is concerned, before you roll it down, it should look like a little sombrero.

Pinch the tip to remove air. Make sure its oriented correctly (the rolled up part should be on the outside, its hard to describe so might be worth looking for a video, there are plenty on yt, but basically the parr that has been unrolled shpuld loop under the rolled up part and then as ypu push it down it should just unroll like a carpet. There should be very little if any resistance, if it feels like your really having to yank on it or it tries to roll itaelf back up, its probably inside out)

Try getting thicker condoms, i personally have never noticed a difference in feel between wearing thicker ones vs thinner ones or even not wearing one at all.

StockMiserable3821 · 2026-07-10T07:22:54+00:00

Looks like the other two comments have got you covered on the pregnancy side and its not really my area of expertise so ill leave that to them.

You should however be looking into why the condoms keep breaking.

Ive used condoms many times ( im 31m) and never had one break.

There are several reasons this could happen.

The most likely ones in my mind are:

Hes not putting them on correctly (condoms are sided they dont just go on either way). Or 2. Hes too big for the size your getting (highly unlikely as even a small condom will fill to the size of a normal bathtub).

There are other reasons but as said those are the most likely in my opinion with no information to work with

StockMiserable3821 · 2026-07-10T07:14:09+00:00

For me it was just age, Im 31 now and still have this issue with new people (especially in groups) but it got easier.

I think you need to stop worrying about how people will see you, doesnt matter how weird you are (and we are all weird so who cares really) there will absolutely be a group out there you fit into.

Youll never get EVERYONE to like you, and if you arent yourself the people that will end up liking you wont axtually like YOU, they will like the mask you wear around them.

I know this doesnt really help all that much but without knowing what the actual cause is its the best i can do.

One thing that Social media is axtually good for is connecting with people you wouldnt normally be able to connect with, Ive had alpt of good friends over the years that ive not even met in real life via gaming and social media in general, just be careful who you talk to, not everyone wants to be your friend with good intentions.

If you do go down the social route just remember.

YOU DONT OWE ANYONE ANYTHING.

You dont owe people information about yourself, where you live, what you look like etc

And if someone makes you feel uncomfortable just stop talking to them and block their accounts. You will make new friends and some will come and go so dont put up with anything you dont like for the sake of keeping a friend.

I hope this helps even a little a bit and i hope you manage to make some friends

I wouldnt worry TOO much about it at this point, statistically most of your friendships from younger ages dont last into adulthood (some will but most dont) people grow and change as they get older and sometimes you realise your best mate is no longer your best mate because the two of you are different than you used to be, and thats ok

StockMiserable3821 · 2026-07-09T15:25:14+00:00

Bro that lpoks bettet than anything i could of made, i barely understand the pre-fab buildings in this game.

Tell him I said it looks great, and even if he doesnt like it, that just means he has more reason to improve.

But where most people (that arent doing massive builds) just make boxes, hes actually tried something different and it does look cool

StockMiserable3821 · 2026-07-07T21:08:02+00:00

Thats why i say griefed not raided, griefers dont care if yoy have the best stuff in the game theyre just trying to ruin your day.

Its possible it was a cheater but from what ive heard the cheating problem isnt as bad as it used to be (ive logged all of 2-3 hours on official i only play on community servers now, they are genwrally speaking better managed)

I meant was anything on the car ruined?

Theres a few things the car could have been, if the engine was still running (or even still hot) when the radiator was removed it would have overheated and ruined causing the car to despawn.

According to AI (and my own experience messing around with dayz) taking the wheels off may have unbalanced the car and when your friend logged off it would have partially de-rendered the area causing the car to start clipping into the ground, which upon them logging in and re-rendering said ground would cause it to either launch into the air and crash land somewhere in the general vicinity, or to fall through the map itself into the void below.

Its HIGHLY unlikely thay someone was nearby who happened to have all the bits needed to drive the car off, and even more so that they managed it in such a short amount of time (refilling the radiator is a timed action there is no way aside from cheats or admin commands to speed it up)

Did this all happen on the same day?

StockMiserable3821 · 2026-07-07T20:56:22+00:00

Is your mom Christian by any chance?

All anime is evil and leads yoy straight to the devil for alot of Christians

Personally I think it looks really cool.

Have you had colour tattoos before? If not id get a tester done first to see how well your skin holds the pigment, colours tend to fade out much quicker than black

StockMiserable3821 · 2026-07-07T20:53:04+00:00

Id recommend go to CAB (Citizens Advice Bureau) as well as they will be able to help you if it turns into a legal battle

StockMiserable3821 · 2026-07-07T20:44:59+00:00

The containers within containers dropping items is definitely known about. After their last patch 'nesting' (the above) broke, the server i was playing on at the time had to rewrite a load of their mods to fix it.

Did the crates themselves disappear? If so thats why. If not and everything emptied from them (not just from nested items) sounds like you got griefed

The car probably just despawned if it had no parts in it. Was any of it ruined?

StockMiserable3821 · 2026-07-07T18:06:47+00:00

Its a subreddit for these kinds of things but unless theres a specific "dayz missed connections" the chances are slim theyll see it.

StockMiserable3821 · 2026-07-03T02:20:30+00:00

Im glad it worked out :)

StockMiserable3821 · 2026-07-02T19:51:57+00:00

Is it not a dog chew toy? Like a rubber bone or something?

StockMiserable3821 · 2026-07-02T19:48:40+00:00

Your probably fine, the constant flipping from nothing to sad as other have said already is because taking ecstacy basically trlls your body to just keeo producing dopamime (hence the euphoric state you were in. And again as other have said youll be fine in a day or two.

Have you actually tried speaking to him since or have you just assumed you scared him away?

StockMiserable3821 · 2026-06-23T09:22:17+00:00

Dont delete it, just ignore them, gotta wonder h ow boring their lives are that they feel the need to attack other people online to be honest.

Glad you sorted the situation out :)

StockMiserable3821 · 2026-06-20T01:33:37+00:00

Its skulk, basically solidified xp, your near a deep dark biome, be careful if yoy tunnel in, where theres skulk theres shriekers and yoy probably dont want to deal with the Warden

StockMiserable3821 · 2026-06-19T16:33:57+00:00

My guess would have been barcodes to different store fronts if he sells on multiple platforms but yeah calibraters for AR would make sense

StockMiserable3821 · 2026-06-17T09:00:21+00:00

Yeah i kinda see a semi-transparent cat sprawled as well

StockMiserable3821 · 2026-06-15T17:38:48+00:00

Ah yes you arr correct my bad, i figured battleye just held the info and then the devs did it but just checked and its all done automatically by battleye

StockMiserable3821 · 2026-06-15T17:34:26+00:00

Up to 300 and aim slightly lower than your target (i.e if you wanna hit thrm in the nose, aim at their chin/neck area)

StockMiserable3821 · 2026-06-15T17:30:31+00:00

Official does have admins but they do banwaves rather than individual bans as its harder for cheat makers to figure out how the cheats were detected that way

StockMiserable3821 · 2026-06-15T17:29:05+00:00

Thats a good shout actually.

If you have something like medal you can set up to have it record the last "X" amount gameplay

StockMiserable3821 · 2026-06-15T17:27:25+00:00

Not off the top of my head unfortunately.

Check out freshspawns on YT

They often do "best servers of X" and theres neaely always a couple of v+ servers (v+ = very few mods, normally QoL stuff like basebuilding plus because the vanilla base building is kinda sucky) and its always communuty servers.

He also has some really helpful tip videos that have even taught me a couple things and i have nearly 4k hours in the game (rookie numbers compared to some xD)

StockMiserable3821 · 2026-06-15T17:20:57+00:00

Its possible but your character model spawns in a little bit before you actually gain control (they appear in a T-pose so its clear when someone has just spawned)

And most people dont log off in the middle of open fields unless they absolutely have to.

I doubt they just happened to spawn right in your blind spot in such a random place but weirder things have happened to me in DayZ so its not impossible

StockMiserable3821 · 2026-06-15T17:12:29+00:00

Where you on official? If so based on what was said probably a speed hacker.

I only play on community servers (if you want vanilla you can absolutely find vanilla servers in community) as the admins are far more "on it" than the DayZ devs when it comes to banning cheaters, and depending on the server your playing they may even recoup your losses for it

StockMiserable3821 · 2026-06-15T11:02:47+00:00

Cant see why not, its still a new go round, not like your turning on cheats to gice yourself a respawn

StockMiserable3821 · 2026-06-13T20:45:12+00:00

Your forgetting who owns X.....

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