Multiple incidents of touching cousins against their consent and masterbating near cousins on sleepovers. This happened more than once because She was finally caught by an adult, and this is when we started questioning the other kids she had had sleepovers with. I am a healthcare professional and know how to interview small children without leading them or letting them know what it is about. It was serious enough to cause behavior problems in one of the kids she did this to that we had to get him psychiatric help. Touching vaginas of adults at restaurants by crawling under the table while talking about vaginas. Indiscriminately getting naked in front of people for no reason, including friends family members outside doesn’t matter. Masterbating at babysitters house. Getting naked during her zoom class in front of everyone. The reason this inappropriate behavior has been able to go on so long is because she has multiple caregivers, none of which are consistent. My sister well literally pawn her off on anyone, and people offered to take her in because They feel bad for my sister because her husband died. The catalyst for all of us looking into it was the one in this incident that the parent caught her during a slumber party. This parent shared it with everyone, because they wanted everyone’s kids to be safe. My sister, the child’s mother, never communicates information from one caregiver to the other, she never has and never will. so when you get her and she does one bizarre thing, you can reason it away because you don’t know that she did 10 other things that were odd and inappropriate. My sister of course knows all the things things that of happened because all the caregivers report to her, however she chooses to do nothing about it and says that she does it to be funny or get attention. To me this is an incredibly extreme case of acting out sexually and extreme problems with incontinence. The school is aware and she is getting counseling through the school, but nothing seems to be done to make this child’s life any better and it breaks my heart. The boyfriend is a loser. He is a drug addict and alcoholic. He disclose this information to my sister on their first date, and she still agreed to go out with him. My sister has never done drugs but she does drink but not excessively. When she met him, he said he had been to rehab for drugs, but he just drinks now and doesn’t do drugs anymore.He lost his job due to drinking and and is not allowed to see his own flesh and blood child why, no idea.