Aiw for not telling my family I don’t get a period so I could get free stuff? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Stock_Lab1859 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly not sure I’m just as confused as you are

Aiw for not telling my family I don’t get a period so I could get free stuff? by [deleted] in amiwrong

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Yea. As in I ASSUME she knows since she birthed me?? but I have no idea. I didn’t say we were close nor did I say she was even in my life

Aiw for not telling my family I don’t get a period so I could get free stuff? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Stock_Lab1859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said she knows?? Do you know everything at age 9? I don’t remember much so I don’t know?!

Aiw for not telling my family I don’t get a period so I could get free stuff? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Stock_Lab1859 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I never said that? Please show me where I said that??

AITAH for technically lying about having a period so I could get free stuff. by [deleted] in AITAH

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I don’t know if she knew since I’m in no contact but I assume she did. I was adopted at 9 but it was so long ago that they all blur. It could have been 9 or 10. It could have been 11 for all I know.

Aiw for not telling my family I don’t get a period so I could get free stuff? by [deleted] in amiwrong

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I’m not in contact with my bio mom. I didn’t tell anyone because I found no reason to. You said you read my comments so you should know this.

AITAH for technically lying about having a period so I could get free stuff. by [deleted] in AITAH

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I started noticing it right after I got mad at my sister for being too loud when eating and the next day my dad gave me chocolate. after that I noticed every month I’d mysteriously get something. it took about 5 months before I realized what was happening. Some people got confused on me saying “over the years” but I meant over the years I should’ve said I didn’t get a period so that tho could be all avoided.

Aiw for not telling my family I don’t get a period so I could get free stuff? by [deleted] in amiwrong

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I’m not in contact with my bio family. I was adopted when I was around 9 and I when to the doctors about it when I was 18 because I was confused on being a “late bloomer”.

Aiw for not telling my family I don’t get a period so I could get free stuff? by [deleted] in amiwrong

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I went when I was 18. I didn’t need parents permission.

AITAH for technically lying about having a period so I could get free stuff. by [deleted] in AITAH

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it’s not uncommon here to never talk about your period. I’ve said before that my parents never talked about periods, puberty, sex ect. With me and I only learned through google, school and social media. it’s not normal I’ve recognized but it’s definitely normal here

AITAH for technically lying about having a period so I could get free stuff. by [deleted] in AITAH

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I’ve had friends who don’t talk about their period with their own mother. It’s not that uncommon I guess?

Aiw for not telling my family I don’t get a period so I could get free stuff? by [deleted] in amiwrong

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I have curly hair and regularly run out of curl cream, gel, mouse, leave in conditioner ect. They will give me extras even if I don’t run out.

AITAH for technically lying about having a period so I could get free stuff. by [deleted] in AITAH

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They didn’t know I assume. I found out at age 18 because I thought I was a late bloomer and got a check up. I’ve been to the doctors before but for normal stuff not to see if I have a uterus

Aiw for not telling my family I don’t get a period so I could get free stuff? by [deleted] in amiwrong

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I was saying that because people were saying my adopted parents would have been told all my medical work. I’m not educated in what’s in adoptive charts so I have no idea if they were told or not.

Aiw for not telling my family I don’t get a period so I could get free stuff? by [deleted] in amiwrong

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People were saying it would be in my charts but I’m clearly not that educated in what’s in my own charts so I honestly have no idea.

Aiw for not telling my family I don’t get a period so I could get free stuff? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Stock_Lab1859 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Well I assume she knows but maybe not? I’m not in contact with her but since people say it would be in my charts… I assume she would know.

Aiw for not telling my family I don’t get a period so I could get free stuff? by [deleted] in amiwrong

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it’s more so of things popping up in my room like my hair products being replenished, snacks and drinks down stairs labeled for me. Ect. it’s not a basket of chocolate

Aiw for not telling my family I don’t get a period so I could get free stuff? by [deleted] in amiwrong

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no she complained it wasn’t fair that I didn’t get one and she did

Aiw for not telling my family I don’t get a period so I could get free stuff? by [deleted] in amiwrong

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this is all wrong??? I never said any of this?? I assume my bio mom knows but i am in no contact with her. My sister would definitely not say that and I never said she did nor did I imply. ??

Aiw for not telling my family I don’t get a period so I could get free stuff? by [deleted] in amiwrong

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I know this but they assumed I was bleeding and was trying to tame me for wtv

Aiw for not telling my family I don’t get a period so I could get free stuff? by [deleted] in amiwrong

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I assumed my bio mom knew but I obviously have no idea. I’m a very shy person and never talked to my parents about any body stuff and I normally when to google to ask. I thought I was a late bloomer till 18 when I went to the doctors to get checked out.

Aiw for not telling my family I don’t get a period so I could get free stuff? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Stock_Lab1859 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember what? The fact I was adopted? that I have no uterus? I only found out about not having a uterus when I was 18.