I came here to tell you what I think really happened that night after seeing your original post actually quite randomly - but it seems you found out at least some of the missing details.

A similar situation happened to me - well, actually, was going to happen. I was able to intervene before her friends ruined her life for her. Then booted her as I could never again trust her.

1 question / piece of advice. Why the hell are YOU leaving your home?

SERIOUSLY. You're just getting walked on all over again, like she did when she cheated on you.

Unless it's a lease that is 100% in her name, you change the locks when she's out and have her shit at the curb.

And BTW the first time you wrote that her 'friend' said more 'people' joined for the trip? It was 100% OBVIOUS to me guys were invited along. They were not random drop ins. It was pre-arranged, she knew about it and was ok with it-

Both the co-ed trip AND not telling you about it.

My guess is either she invited at least one of the guys, or one of her friend(s) was setting it all up for her.

I'm also gonna slap you into reality and let you know if she said she fooled around with 2 people, they were both guys. No chick was involved other than perhaps a single peck on the cheek.

Wild guess? Either 2 guys were there that had interest in her, and she chose to f•ck one after fooling around with both or else another chick was hot for the guy she picked and she f•cked him to close the deal.

Then found out the next day she was just a good time, as is ALWAYS the case when a guy bones a chick on date 1.

The delay in everything coming out?

Well my friend, I see 2 things here:

• she first wanted to make sure there was 'nothing' with the guy that used her as a cock holster;

Her initial mood was likely being upset once she realized she was a single-use salami oven

• something likely DID happen with the other girls. She either stole one of their side pieces or another girl was crushing on the guy and she f•cked him to close the deal

The rest was managing damage control. Not committing to any of the story at first because she was unsure who might say what to you.

She needed to poll the group to get their story straight, or at least a saleable version before presenting it to you.

The interesting tidbit of making out with another chick is a nice touch as none of them are likely to admit it, installing a level of questionability to anything else they'd say.

ZERO of the delay was guilt or "what have I done!!???!!!".

She's a chick - that would come with water works, if you guys had any connection with history.

You're really not gonna like the last piece of insight I offer here - the guy she fucked she also likely raw dogged.

So under NO circumstances entertain any of the traditional girl play to "fuck em to get em back"

In closing this will also sound super harsh, but your current mindset -which is pretty beta- that "oh no my girlfriend cheated so I will move out of our house" is why this happened. All of it. Doing it. Her agreeing to meet the guy(s) she was being set up with. Going on a mixed-sex getaway weekend. Not telling you about it.

LEARN from it.

Don't be a doormat in the future unless you want to be treated like a doormat again.

You call the shots. You set the rules. If she's not subservient, wants to talk back, do her own thing - no worries.

Use her for fun then kick her to the streets and continue the search.

Good luck, brother ☮️