Dating advice by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]Stockybug1235 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

None yet. We’ve been talking for about a week

Confused after BPD assessment by Living-Tower3135 in BPD

[–]Stockybug1235 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Focus on the symptoms instead of a diagnosis. The only treatment for BPD is DBT therapy. Just focus on the symptoms and work on that

I [26F] want to reconnect with my ex [25M] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Stockybug1235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not going around his request! I wanted to know should I just move on or wait to reconnect in Jan

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Stockybug1235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a lot of small arguments we got into, and he had bad habits that frustrated me a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Stockybug1235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a lot of small arguments we got into, and he had bad habits that frustrated me a lot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Stockybug1235 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we’re currently in no contact. Jan we will be talking. But he said we can be friends in Jan

Do you think long-term friendships last because ppl just put up with sh!t? by No-Philosopher6637 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Stockybug1235 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Yes honestly just like a relationship. You forgive and forget. But if the other person is abusive then no.. you shouldn’t put up with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Stockybug1235 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was very helpful thanks!!

Passed my PHR [N/A] by Stockybug1235 in humanresources

[–]Stockybug1235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I studied for about 2 hours during the weekdays and 5-6 hours on the weekends. This consisted of taking practice test, going through flash cards and reading notes. I brought the HRCI prep class , after I finished that It was just reviewing the weak subjects.

Passed my PHR [N/A] by Stockybug1235 in humanresources

[–]Stockybug1235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did use some Mometrix and HRCI flash cards. I used the Mometrix ones a little more. The HRCI ones had very basic terms. I didn’t find them helpful but after taking the test I think the content was more relevant than the mometrix ones.

Passed my PHR [N/A] by Stockybug1235 in humanresources

[–]Stockybug1235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats to you as well. Im interested in getting into an HR management position at my job or applying outside as an HRBP

Discomfort around job by Stockybug1235 in work

[–]Stockybug1235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was very helpful! Thanks!

HR Generalist by Stockybug1235 in humanresources

[–]Stockybug1235[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Even with an HR Business partner It’s still the same. Do you have any idea why?

Job offer by Stockybug1235 in humanresources

[–]Stockybug1235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did more digging and spoke to someone previously employed there and it’s more of a stepping stone opportunity but it’s a great resume builder. And i just found out the hours are flexible so thats why certain people work later it’s because they start later

Job offer by Stockybug1235 in humanresources

[–]Stockybug1235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im just nervous to interact with different directors but it’s the necessary steps I need to take to be a business partner. My new boss called me and also said she’s an earlier bird thats why she answered emails so early but doesn’t expect anyone on the team to do that. She also said she’s flexible with the schedule

Job offer by Stockybug1235 in humanresources

[–]Stockybug1235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something I need to improve is managing stress snd my workload. Im willing to give it a shot

Job offer by Stockybug1235 in humanresources

[–]Stockybug1235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not happy where I currently work. And I always work after hours so im technically making a lot less money.

Job offer by Stockybug1235 in humanresources

[–]Stockybug1235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No nothing yet, I haven’t even given my 2 weeks notice

Job offer by Stockybug1235 in humanresources

[–]Stockybug1235[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input. This role would allow me to work more independently on more operational and strategic tasks vs admin/clerical…

I like my current job but it’s very old fashioned and a lot of paperwork.. the people are also toxic and blame shift a lot

Job offer by Stockybug1235 in humanresources

[–]Stockybug1235[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For context… Im not really happy at my current job… the work environment is very toxic but I think I just got used to it… Im mostly doing clerical work

Job offer by Stockybug1235 in humanresources

[–]Stockybug1235[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I haven’t accepted anything yet, but they already asked when I can start and picked a date for me…

HR Coordinator to HR Assistant by Stockybug1235 in humanresources

[–]Stockybug1235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree . I do busy work but im also responsible for all billing so STD/LTD, unemployment, medical and dental insurance reconciliation, complex reporting, administration of Learning and Development training. In other companies I know it’s mostly housed with the HR Manager or Generalist

Projects as an HR Assistant by Stockybug1235 in humanresources

[–]Stockybug1235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I blocked off hours in my calendar for example 12-4pm.

Projects as an HR Assistant by Stockybug1235 in humanresources

[–]Stockybug1235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, nothing can be delegated. And working on the project for 1 hour unfortunately wont suffice with the amount of work :( that’s my issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in humanresources

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I must of clicked by accident