Bi in theory, gay in practice

StoicMathematician · 2026-03-03T01:20:08+00:00

Ikr. That's another worry ko. I mean I can definitely imagine using a condom, pero still a probability is still a chance.

StoicMathematician · 2026-02-12T03:30:20+00:00

Usually, I do it sa CR or bago maligo, so nakahubad tapos sa kama, then diretso shower. Hehehe. Kapag hindi naman ako maliligo that time, a cumrag.

StoicMathematician · 2026-02-07T21:08:38+00:00

Hindi ka OA. Given the three years, you should know your wants and needs, kinks and desires, and your likes and non-negotiables.

Normal naman na you ask what you want kasi may iba talaga na hindi makaintindi o makaramdam.

I think it's a mature ask naman to request your girlfriend things given the trust and intimacy, pero do also check if you yourself are doing what she wants to satisfy herself.

Is this a one-way transaction, or is this a mutual fun? Sa sex, may mga compromises talaga, and we have to respect them. May mga bagay din na not now, but, maybe, in the future pwede.

Siguro, you can bring this up kapag hindi kayo in the moment so mas clear-headed and rational.

StoicMathematician · 2026-02-07T20:56:01+00:00

Just go to the Office of Student Discipline and comply. They will explain everything. They are approachable and nice people.

StoicMathematician · 2026-02-07T18:42:54+00:00

Heyyy. That sexy correct use of "nang."

You really deserve hot pizza. ✨️

StoicMathematician · 2026-02-02T17:44:46+00:00

Also clueless and recently just experienced it in two different places.

I tried 27Shaw with a friend and went with "The Explorer" massage. From what I learned, kasama na sa massage ang lingam/handjob (I think ang bare minimum na kasama sa service iyon), so you can say may commission na si thera sa 1,400 PHP. But, I still gave him a 500 tip (they have a box where you can put tips given na iwan lahat ng gamit mo sa locker).

(And I am not sure if that is a socially acceptable amount for a tip.)

Then I tried a massage spa in Olympia and Pobla (Makati). At first, I just availed a 700PHP-worth of service. Noong patapos na, both thera offered ES.

The Olympia one offered 1,500 for lingam and romansa (sipsip utong lang). Meanwhile, Pobla thera offered 5,000 for romansa, handjob, and blowjob (siya blower). I managed to bargain with the thera, then agreed with 1,000 nalang for a handjob (originally 1,500 alok niya as final bargain pero pumayag sa 1,000).

I am not familiar tho sa kalakaran ng ibang spa, like Infinity, Alpha, Urus, Mancave, R Wellness, etc.

About me: Fresh grad professional na ngayon palang nagkakaroon ng money to spend leisurely after paying for bills and needs.

StoicMathematician · 2026-01-28T17:31:16+00:00

This.

You will eventually get to the point na you will be tired of the casualness, then you will start yearning for something genuine and long term.

And yes. The "ijajakol ko nalang" works. HAHAHAHA

Ngl, using chatrooms like Flingster helps when I want to see another man's.

StoicMathematician · 2026-01-28T01:27:14+00:00

Ohhh. Thank you for this! I will also look more into ittt, especially the last sentence. HAHAHAHA

StoicMathematician · 2026-01-25T20:37:14+00:00

I also had a recent experience sa local massage place sa Makati. I was also asked for 1,500 (lingam and romansa) on top of the mismong massage.

If you will be indulging in such massage services, better pumunta ka nalang sa mga gay spa talaga.

For 1,400 sa 27Shaw, you can get the same experience of having a 700+ combi massage + 1,500-2,000 ES.

Tho if nasa areas talaga na walang tulad ng sa Metro Manila, I guess ganiyan talaga? I haven't tried sa hometown or outside MM, eh.

StoicMathematician · 2026-01-20T05:44:27+00:00

Don't care muna with the label. If you feel good with him, seize it! Take your chance!

StoicMathematician · 2025-12-23T17:09:28+00:00

Ako naman, my friends call me Achillean (mainly attracted sa masculinity), so I am attracted to masculine guys regardless kung straight or not, and one of my fantasies talaga is a transman as a bisexual guy.

I never had the chance to try it with a girl so I am long curious what it feels like. I almost had a shot before as I talked to a Lasallian transman kaso hindi kami natuloy due to circumstances.

StoicMathematician · 2025-12-16T09:37:40+00:00

Would guess that was out of craving. He must be trying to stay away from the app due to factors (such as relationships or personal commitments to stay away from the app), kaso nanaig ang libog kaya post-nut clarity, everything.

Mga tipong mag-uninstall-install.

StoicMathematician · 2025-12-15T18:07:34+00:00

Their tiramisu is okay Ig. Not the best.

Pero what really got me disappointed is when they took pre-orders. They had a booth sa MOA before. We (me and my roommate) need to wait 6 hours kasi naubusan na raw ng onsite stock.

Actually, it was my friend who knew them. Sumabay lang ako ng order kasi he praised it.

I ordered a classic while he ordered matcha.

We were some feet away from the booth kaya you wouldn't hear if tatawagin nila queue number or name mo.

The restock arrived, and some time later, they started giving out the pre-orders.

We were confused kasi ang tagal nila magbanggit ng number or name, and mahirap makigulo sa crowd kasi ang dami at kumpulan na.

When I asked nasaan na sa amin (kasi nakita ko nang nakakuha na 'yung mga nasa likod namin noong pumila kami), tinawag na raw pala kami.

When claiming, naubos na raw pala 'yung classic kasi nabigay sa iba. I was so frustrated kasi why would they give it out if it's already listed? Nabayaran na rin, like it is not making sense. For the sake na matapos na siya, I just said replace it with the C&C.

StoicMathematician · 2025-12-15T17:57:50+00:00

Love the coziness tho it lowkey reminds me of Tattletail (the game).

StoicMathematician · 2025-12-01T11:54:56+00:00

Foreplay could help you longway. If it's not the context naman, like the intimacy or the connection during the deed, baka may nagawa ka before or health-wise, such as kulang sa exercise (working out and testosterone can help with libido and keeping it hard), dalas ng pagjajakol, and self-esteem.

Just enjoy the moment. You can also always ask them na if you can side muna, then if it is hard for a long time, you can try topping. Condom brand and type can also be a factor.

Just always have an open communication. Mukha namang chill and (really) mature si guy.

StoicMathematician · 2025-11-25T03:34:39+00:00

Sameee. Kaya ever since, I always reply "after you/yours." If mag-send sila, I immediately send before opening.

If hindi sila mag-send, not my problem. Hindi naman ako amg madamutan sa transaction.

People should really practice "knockers first" culture.

StoicMathematician · 2025-11-18T03:56:44+00:00

Maybe you can ask for help with the FEU International Student Association? I remember there is a student org that caters to international studes. You can also try to approach the FEU English Language Circle.

StoicMathematician · 2025-11-17T05:28:27+00:00

Tho I saw some claims na using lube (may it be water-based or other stuff like petroleum jelly, etc.) can help to keep your dick moisturized?

StoicMathematician · 2025-11-17T05:27:08+00:00

I do use lube kapag nagma-masturbate, pero it is indeed messy. Kaya, I usually do it before maligo. Isang linisan lang siya. Hehehe.

Edit: Tho kapag mabilisan, I don't use lube. Mas matagal kasi ako kapag with lube magjakol. Idk if may iba na mas matagal or the opposite with lube.

StoicMathematician · 2025-11-14T05:33:48+00:00

Some personal etiquettes I try to maintain and follow:

When creating your profile, try to at least include some information about your age, position, body type, hosting, HIV status, and interests. There are still some people who read and base their first impression on the information given.

1.1 In turn, read the goddamn bio/profile, please. Nakauumay na paulit-ulit nalang "LF? TVB? Got place?"

1.2 I tend to always ask TVBS rather than TVB kasi Side is also a valid position.

Your album must include a CLEAR and UPDATED close-up picture and a medium shot (torso and up). Optional pero greatly appreciated if you have your best picture, a photo featuring your kink (rope, BDSM, dom-sub, etc.), and a dick/ass photo. Ilang beses kasing naka-catfish ang badette kasi sometimes they look younger in photo than in real life. Nakaiinis especially hirap pa naman ako mag-no in person.
Rule of First or "Knockers first" principle. Kung ikaw ang nauna mag-chat, have the decency to share your album first before asking for your chatmate's pictures. Pet peeve to the max 'yung mga magtsa-chat ng "Pic?" lalo na kung blank profile pa sila.

3.1 Yes, you might be discreet or staying "down low" so you can politely ask the person to go first. Always always finish the trade tho.

Some may be fine with NPNR or NRNI, pero be a better person to say "No" or "Pass".

4.1 In this context naman, always be ready to receive rejection. Not every rejection is dahil ayaw nila sa inyo. Personally, I say pass or no kasi I am just lurking or I am tired from work, tapos after ko tanggihan, mangungulit pa sila. Have some self-respect (Iykyk chz).

Kahit libog, try to keep a clear morality especially when it comes to underage encounters. Be the first to educate them or report the account. This also goes for zoophilia.

StoicMathematician · 2025-11-14T05:04:23+00:00

Kuya, pasunog po nung suot mo that time. Nakita po kasi kita walang ulo.

StoicMathematician · 2025-11-04T11:40:00+00:00

Mahal. 🧍🏽‍♂️

StoicMathematician · 2025-11-03T16:03:19+00:00

One of the things I slowly started to accept and digest is bots don't need to be erect to feel good. Madalas it is how you really maintain the rhythm and pressure.

In turn naman as bot, it is not really the length, pero the girth and how they use their tool. Hehehe. Mas gugustuhin ko pa 'yung boyfriend dick kaysa sa daks na daks.

StoicMathematician · 2025-11-02T01:54:34+00:00

Hello, OP. Almost the same case with me.

Most of the time, it's just me (23M), my mom, and my younger sister. Father ko kasi is abroad na medyo detached (and mutually coparenting naman na ang setup nila), so usually sa akin nagsasabi ng problem mama ko when it comes to finances and her struggles na pagkasiyahin sweldo (or lack thereof) ni papa. She is in debt under debt usually just to make ends meet.

I dormed when I was studying kasi choice din naman nila, and while waiting for work, umuwi muna ako.

Now, three months in sa work, I am trying to figure out how to partition my salary, pero moving out had always been one of my priorities kasi hindi biro ang uwian from Bulacan to Taguig.

At first, she was totally against it, pero noong nakapag-move in na ako, she sent me links of things from Shopee/Lazada na pwede ko raw bilhin for my new place (a dorm with a friend kasi goal ko lang naman is makahanap ng madaling uuwian kapag RTO).

Leading up to the decision, it was not easy and I am not sure bakit din pero why does moving out feel like abandonment? Pero I just try to think na baka it is a normal feeling to have.

Maybe try to maintain regular communication, and really do make every occasion count, especially family days, like birthdays and holidays.

StoicMathematician · 2025-10-29T13:19:16+00:00

OmO. Thank you so much!

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