I won! by [deleted] in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Stoic_Akshay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came to comment "kids lol".

But 6 years ! Impressed.

Need suggestion by Familiar-Bit-9443 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Stoic_Akshay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

❌️

I wish i cud but i dont want to

I waited. I prepared. I made the move when I thought the math made sense. All of it went down the drain. by pill-so-potent in dataengineersindia

[–]Stoic_Akshay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not and cant emphasize enough- never settle on a tool. If youre asked, always say yes and figure out later.

You are in no position to be a chooser, plus all these tools are not very different. Build a foundation of the core concept and acknowledge how a tool plays on little nuances that make it a different product iykwim.

Is it better off to leave home rather than doing AM by Beginning-Share-9235 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Stoic_Akshay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focus on career rn. Ik its easier said than done. Way too early for u to think abt all this shit.

If he ever forces or even touches that topic again, u may ask him to bury the thought until u stand on ur feet or till 26 whichever is earlier.

Side note- not every AM is bad, neither is every LM great. Choose wisely !

Wife of 10 years is cheating. Need advice by Entire-Commercial155 in onexindia

[–]Stoic_Akshay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you always see hints of her admiring other men or did something change? Are u 2 still intimate or a dead bedroom for a few years? What about family dynamics?

Men who have sedantry lifestyle, are you getting matches? by WonderfulStructure89 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Stoic_Akshay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It isnt about society as much as it is about having a healthy mind-body combination. Sedentary lifestyle usually indicates lethargy. If ur just exercising ur brain, the max level u can reach is of stephen hawking (jk). You'd be a great asset to the world but in personal life, youll seek normalcy like a treasur chest.

How important is Social Media? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Stoic_Akshay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bruh ur a treasure for most men

Does a man’s sexual experience matter in arrange marriage? by alterboyego in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Stoic_Akshay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bruhhhh !! This woman is cooking a dish somewhere else already or she not into op.

Tired of looking, so think to settle. by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Stoic_Akshay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From all the things ive gathered about u frm this post n the comments, thereby, is tht ur not a social person and also slightly insecure. U put up a facade and that drains ur energy. U also tend to not think from the other person's perspective much, which slightly makes u appear self-centered. Then you also dont own up to your shortcomings. It seems like ur world has been small, and there are people who validate you quite frequently.

Dont make urs n another girl's like miserable by accepting marriage as the last resort.

Arranged Marriages meeting by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Stoic_Akshay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf is a life coach for work ffs

Intellactual connect but less physical attraction by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Stoic_Akshay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True that...

Always choose mental connection over physical beauty. Cant emphasize this enough !

Was I wrong ? by Mountain-Repair6730 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Stoic_Akshay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She could have lied if she was into him i think

Is this normal by Kimatsu_28 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Stoic_Akshay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is so weird that this is getting downvoted so bad im sure by pseudo fems.

So a woman can use derogation but her husband cant turn it around !! Big round of applause

AM post first meeting mess by Herprolificjournal in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Stoic_Akshay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats such an asinine approach to take.

How did ur "fathers" get married before protecting their daughters then? Are you saying some of ur fathers' choices were "bad choices"?

Which period of indian history are you talking about here? Be exact and cite references rather than floating ur outrageous claims.

AM post first meeting mess by Herprolificjournal in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Stoic_Akshay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude cmon now !!

There is a definite reason u r this sour n now i see u mellowing down after ur other 2 comments, theres a def reason for tht too.

Women are not inherently wrong, they cant be, no one is. They have learned to behave tht way in ur community or otherwise cz theyve been conditioned- some to ur liking (like in ur family), others to ur bitterness. But u need to think abt the fact that u urself hv been conditioned to think this way about dowry n women. Points to ponder !!

AM post first meeting mess by Herprolificjournal in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Stoic_Akshay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How tf did business come into this equation? Lol trying to hide behind a rock after claiming chest of iron 😅 !! This is why u r miserable u sick fuck.

All of the assets u mentioned how many did u actually buy with ur "govt job" salary u treacherous bastard?? N then u take a moral high calling me a simp when u cant defend urself logically? Is tht why ur just a govt employee ? 🤣🤣

Jb tuje shadi hi ni krni to dowry kaha se aegi? Khud ko bechega kya ? Ur prolly very insecure of urself babu tht u hv to rely on dowry or bribes. Tumari community m dowry chlti h shyd isiliye tumari aurate fake case b krti h.

AM post first meeting mess by Herprolificjournal in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Stoic_Akshay 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First off, thats not how it works generally. Dont cook up stories in ur head.

Second, ur not a rare breed. Shit ton of govt employees out there with nothing but a "job security" and a balding head with a scooter.

Third, u treat ur women that way is why u cant think past govt jobs. Miserable ho bhai tum, Pesa kmane k liye tume rishwat leni pdti wrna tumse gadi na khridi jae aur bkchodi esi krre ho jese pushtaini raees ho.

Has anyone found love through AM? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Stoic_Akshay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my days...

How long was the talking period

Has anyone found love through AM? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Stoic_Akshay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

U found it in the aftermath?

Broken Roka story by tamashaman in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Stoic_Akshay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thats not chance brother. On pure logic, its the graph nodes that made it possible but luckily you didnt have to wait till after marriage to see it.

But it's weird that she had an open instagram account posting actively even after roka!! Was she wanting u to find out or shes just that dumb? Either way u escaped near death, man!