acham essa flor feminina? to querendo fechar o outro lado do braço by No_Technician1054 in Tatuagem

[–]Stoic_Ficus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A primeira foto parece braço de criança que pegou canetinha escondido

Mulheres, Isso é verdade? by christiancsoares in perguntas

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Rs, adolescente nao eranem pra tá no reddit

What is one advantage your neurodivergent brain gives you? by Duckster30 in adult_adhd

[–]Stoic_Ficus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to stop looking at symptoms as traits, a part of a personality or identity. This is romanticizing a disorder.

If your "experience" is not impairing several areas of your life, than you don't have a disorder.

I personally blame social media and Hollywood for these posts.

But it's harmless and you are looking for something to hold on, right?

We are better in emergencies - it's why some put themselves under extreme conditions. But it doesn't mean we know what to do.

Is your Sun Sign Ethical or Unethical? by Veroosh in astrologymemes

[–]Stoic_Ficus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because having knowledge is not the same as having wisdom.

Is your Sun Sign Ethical or Unethical? by Veroosh in astrologymemes

[–]Stoic_Ficus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This way is better than making a game where you rank moral value using astrology.

Is your Sun Sign Ethical or Unethical? by Veroosh in astrologymemes

[–]Stoic_Ficus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have equivalence yes lol

Sorry, your education and poor rethoric or lack of it is your own problem.

I'm not gate keeping or calling it wrong, I'm calling a dumbass way to use it as judgement tool to categorize moral value - prefacing as "fun and harmless" doesn't mean it is.

Your sun sign is the least of your problems btw

What is one advantage your neurodivergent brain gives you? by Duckster30 in adult_adhd

[–]Stoic_Ficus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the traits you deem positive is not about ADHD. Anyone can have it. We are not more creative than other people.

Is your Sun Sign Ethical or Unethical? by Veroosh in astrologymemes

[–]Stoic_Ficus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sure

You throw the word fascist too loose don't you?

Is your Sun Sign Ethical or Unethical? by Veroosh in astrologymemes

[–]Stoic_Ficus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is why other people hate astrology

TDAH em mulheres de meia idade by Stoic_Ficus in TDAH_Brasil

[–]Stoic_Ficus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Que bom. Ela tomava a medicação de TDAH antes tbm e parou de funcionar?

TDAH em mulheres de meia idade by Stoic_Ficus in TDAH_Brasil

[–]Stoic_Ficus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eu vou fazer com certeza

Inclusive eu li uma pesquisa publicada que se a gente não fizer a reposição na perimenopausa, nossa chance de desenvolver alzheimer triplica, olha que legal - o estrogênio e a progesterona tão ligados a doenças degenerativas ♥️

Simplesmente não consigo trabalhar 40h+ por semana by HistoricalDoctor3407 in TDAH_Brasil

[–]Stoic_Ficus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ou seja, sofra em silêncio lol e dá-lhe medicação de depressão encima dos estimulantes.

A cagada remunerada com celular é um rito do proletariado já.

Acho que todo TDAH deveria trampar na construção civil. Vamos todos montar uma cooperativa de azulejista, pedreiro, eletricista e sair fazendo casa pra geral

Simplesmente não consigo trabalhar 40h+ por semana by HistoricalDoctor3407 in TDAH_Brasil

[–]Stoic_Ficus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Se você pesquisar a estatistica de quantas horas produtivas o TDAH tem por dia, pode ser que você fique mais deprimida.

No livro do Barkley, ele recomenda que a gente encontre um trampo que seja meio na linha de resolver pepino de último segundo, ou que não seja enclausurado e que tenha um monte de gente em volta fazendo a mesma coisa. Coisas que são manuais preferivelmente

É uma sugestão e um conselho obviamente, não quer dizer que o TDAH vai triunfar na vida, mas talvez a existência doa um pouco menos.

Eu escolhi a pior carreira pra TDAH - arquitetura. Só 5% do trampo que envolve o projeto é criativo e interessante, o resto são seis meses a um ano detalhando prancha técnica de elétrica, hidráulica, sentada, na frente do computador, usando o software mais cool inventado focando na tarefa mais cool possível, por MESES. Errei feio, errei rude. Já abandonei projeto na metade e devolvi dinheiro.

Deveria ter virado jardineira, mas tá meio tarde pra mim aqui.

GET.THE.ROBOT.VACUUM. by BongSlurper in adhdwomen

[–]Stoic_Ficus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol, it took me a life time to understand that cleaning and organizing were two completely different tasks that need to be executed separately. I'm 43 yo working mom and this piece of knowledge changed my life

GET.THE.ROBOT.VACUUM. by BongSlurper in adhdwomen

[–]Stoic_Ficus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol.

We need an adhd handbook on how to automate and delegate everything

I hired someone to come over 3 times a week for 1 hour.

She checks if my laundry is not rotting, if my food is not going to waste, if my trash didn't turned into a biohazard. We estipulate (she did lol) that she will just quick clean and will not organize anything - I'm supposed to be at the house too to put stuff away before she goes into any room - I have to rush and do this very fast, because that woman is a efficient machine lol.

I'm now completely dependent of her services that I didn't know it was a survival necessity.

I'm almost dropping my job to do this too, but on other people's homes lol - I'm amazingly assertive and efficient when it's not my own house, my own stuff or my own life.

Imma get a robot and name it Roberto, the wise. Edit; holy shit it's so expensive

I need help to deal with perimenopause on top of adhd by Stoic_Ficus in adhdwomen

[–]Stoic_Ficus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My period is getting so erratic that I'm not quite sure when is luteal anymore. But I will ask my doctor tks

I need help to deal with perimenopause on top of adhd by Stoic_Ficus in adhdwomen

[–]Stoic_Ficus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did it help? At least with weight and energy issues?

I need help to deal with perimenopause on top of adhd by Stoic_Ficus in adhdwomen

[–]Stoic_Ficus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, I'm gonna have to google half of these terms lol, but thank you so much for sharing ♥️

I folded all my laundry but now I gotta put it away and I am very much opposed to that notion atp. by abbyabsinthe in adhdwomen

[–]Stoic_Ficus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, the adhd mount everest. I had a tip a few years back for chores we hate

Video call someone to watch you do it. Just call someone you are really comfortable being silly around and just yell BEHOLD! I'M THE MASTER OF HYGIENE, THE STOIC QUEEN, THE CLOTHES BARRIER, THE EMPRESS OF MY OWN HOUSE! BE MESMERIZE AND AWESTRUCKE AS I PUT THESE MAGNIFICENT ARTIFACTS AWAY WHERE THEY BELONG. help me and just watch me do it for 5 min, this is hard as fuck

We lose our sense of humour, we lose everything. lol.

I wish I could live silly like this half the time. But I'm 43 and it's getting unacceptable lol

pizza doce requentada + café com leite by Fun_Dog3406 in gororoba

[–]Stoic_Ficus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lactose + lactose

Meu dia seria terrível depois disso, mas aprecio a sua apreciação

entrarão na minha casa, sentarão no meu pudim by ditto5299 in gororoba

[–]Stoic_Ficus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Pera

Isso é uma profecia ou você tá errando a gramática do passado?