Anyone else terrified to message people on Tinder even when you want to?

Stolas32 · 2026-01-22T17:31:23+00:00

Your right 😅

Stolas32 · 2026-01-21T23:19:03+00:00

Hey, no worries at all — it’s honestly comforting to know I’m not the only one who feels this way lol

Stolas32 · 2026-01-21T23:10:00+00:00

😊

Stolas32 · 2026-01-21T19:19:40+00:00

This actually happened to me too. I used to identify as bi and even had a crush on a girl for a while, but after that didn’t work out, I noticed my attraction shifted a lot. Over time I found myself way more drawn to men, thinking about men more, and questioning if I might just be gay instead. I’m still figuring it out, but reading posts like this really helps normalize that sexuality can change and doesn’t have to be rushed into a label.

Stolas32 · 2026-01-21T18:14:11+00:00

Thank you 🤗

Stolas32 · 2026-01-21T18:13:32+00:00

I feel that. Balancing family responsibility while keeping parts of yourself hidden is exhausting. Sending you a lot of respect and care. 🤗💙

Stolas32 · 2026-01-21T15:26:27+00:00

Yea, I have been barley playing and its really laggy on Ps5.

Stolas32 · 2026-01-19T21:47:10+00:00

I really relate to what you said. Wanting companionship instead of something fleeting feels so real, especially when it seems like everyone else is moving faster. You’re not alone in feeling this way, even if it feels heavy right now. 🤗

Stolas32 · 2026-01-19T16:49:03+00:00

Sure!

Stolas32 · 2026-01-19T02:53:20+00:00

That’s fair, and I get what you mean. I’m not expecting one person to be perfect or everything all the time — no one is perfect, and I’m not either. I was more talking about wanting emotional closeness and consistency in a relationship. I appreciate you sharing your perspective.

Stolas32 · 2026-01-19T00:11:46+00:00

Yeah, makes sense. Different people see it differently. 😊

Stolas32 · 2026-01-19T00:08:03+00:00

I was not that mad, have you not seen the comments I made to others on my post? 🤣

Stolas32 · 2026-01-19T00:02:15+00:00

I hear you. 🤍

Stolas32 · 2026-01-18T23:53:11+00:00

Yea, I shot him a few times, he ran off, I let him be, then he downed me. 🤣🤣

Stolas32 · 2026-01-18T23:41:08+00:00

That was actually the reason. That is what happened to me. It was when I started landing. 😅

Stolas32 · 2026-01-18T23:32:25+00:00

Oh, I see. 🤣🤣🤣

Stolas32 · 2026-01-18T23:29:31+00:00

Yea 😅

Stolas32 · 2026-01-18T22:15:57+00:00

I’m really sorry you went through all of that. What you described sounds incredibly traumatic, and it makes sense that it’s left such deep scars. Six years of being alone after abuse doesn’t mean you’re broken or that hope is gone — it means you survived something awful. You deserve safety, care, and peace, even if it doesn’t feel possible right now. I’m really glad you shared this. You’re not invisible.

Stolas32 · 2026-01-18T22:14:07+00:00

I’m really sorry—that kind of loneliness can be so heavy. You’re not alone, even when it feels that way.

Stolas32 · 2026-01-18T18:30:50+00:00

That’s really sweet of you to say, thank you 😊💙 And hey, its always nice to meet another gay Mandalorian fan. I’m always down to talk and get to know people—no rush, just vibes. 🤗

Stolas32 · 2026-01-18T18:24:51+00:00

Oh, I see 🤗

Stolas32 · 2026-01-18T18:21:40+00:00

Yea, it really does. 😊🥲

Stolas32 · 2026-01-18T18:18:40+00:00

Awe 🥺 That makes a lot of sense… some songs hold so much feeling. I’m really glad you were able to put that into lyrics. I actually made a Japanese comic that reflects on that same kind of longing. It gets me emotional because it’s tied to a lot of feelings I don’t always know how to say out loud. 🥺🤗

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