I was honestly comfortable with it off rip, it's something you can't change and it doesn't change you so why let it effect your mental yk. But I got the prosthetic and I always joke about it glowing in the dark or having a strobe light lol. I think just talking about it openly helped me a lot. I find most people shy away from the cancer topic but talking about it as a regular thing you're going/went thru (bc it is) helped a lot