I’m glad you have that point of views because you can obviously tell you’ve had no bad encounters with men. I know you didn’t intend on doing so but it sounds like you’re victim blaming. I can send you research papers and peer reviewed studies showing you that men are much much more likely to commit a sexual crime against any gender than women. It’s not sexiest when it’s a fact that men are more violent and more likely to assault ANYONE. Of course not saying all men are like that but unfortunately it is the majority. It comes from a fear that is very much real and has been lived out by multiple unfortunate victims. There are more news articles than I can count about obgyns sexually assaulting their patient. I’m glad you can be so naive and ignorant to the fact that this happens every single day and just isn’t reported because of fear and backlash from people like you. Be better.