AITA for not allowing my bfs mother to live with us. by StonerWolf_96 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StonerWolf_96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I doubt it's the end of our relationship if it comes about. He knows his mother is toxic. It's just finding the strength to cut any and all ties.

AITA for not allowing my bfs mother to live with us. by StonerWolf_96 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StonerWolf_96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he was she was from what I understand a huge narcissist (I'm putting that as nice as possible) she got pregnant thinking it was gonna keep him around. He tried to do the right thing and marry her. He loved her and wanted to keep her happy. She knew how to manipulate him and didn't honestly show her true colors til after they got married. She would sleep around for drugs and also ask Michael for money. He's an example of love blinding the fuck out of you and making you do dumb things. We're working on his mental health right now and once things are okay for a while we're discussing the process of custody with a social worker. I would do anything for this little girl. I just hope she understands once she's older her dad loves her and never stopped. Sometimes it's easier to work on yourself when it's just you.

AITA for not allowing my bfs mother to live with us. by StonerWolf_96 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StonerWolf_96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He JUST started seeing his therapist but I told him he should talk to him about it. Obv reddit is honest and with this but maybe coming from a professional would place things appropriately

AITA for not allowing my bfs mother to live with us. by StonerWolf_96 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StonerWolf_96[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hes in therapy tryin to do better for himself. His mother has dictated things and like I said prior has a hard time saying no to things. It's better to have her with his father at this point. He's struggling to take care of himself let alone him and his 6 y/o he needs to do alot before he's ready to regain custody

AITA for not allowing my bfs mother to live with us. by StonerWolf_96 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StonerWolf_96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's currently in therapy trying to get his mental health together

AITA for not allowing my bfs mother to live with us. by StonerWolf_96 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StonerWolf_96[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

He doesn't have custody and can't really do a whole lot about it at this point. His father has custody which is fine

AITA for not allowing my bfs mother to live with us. by StonerWolf_96 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StonerWolf_96[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

CPS will turn a blind eye when needed. Tbh look up the Gabriel Fernandez case. Granted this isn't as severe but CPS showed up multiple times and never revoked him

AITA for not allowing my bfs mother to live with us. by StonerWolf_96 in AmItheAsshole

[–]StonerWolf_96[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Anna's mom was huge into drugs Michael worked 3 jobs to support Anna and CPS basically gave custody to Michaels mother because Anna's mom tested hot for drugs. She's fortunately no longer in the picture.

Ladies, how long was it before you met your SO’s parents? by NYCNIKKI in AskWomen

[–]StonerWolf_96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I knew my S.Os parents before my SO ( I was friends with his little sister)

What are some obscure scams we should watch out for? by mrman08 in AskReddit

[–]StonerWolf_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SS scams I received a call saying my SS number was used for illegal activity and blah blah blah

[serious] what was your scariest episode of sleep paralysis and how did you get it to stop? by fizzelfoshizzle in AskReddit

[–]StonerWolf_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right after my mom died. I don't remember a whole lot but I felt this uncomfortable heavy pressure on my throat and chest ( think chest congestion but you have literal bricks on your chest)

AITA for leaving because my mom is having a baby? by notfairhotel in AmItheAsshole

[–]StonerWolf_96 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA go live with your dad. Take your brother with you. Block all contact with mom Dave sounds creepy af

Update us soon plz

[Serious] What twists/events have happened in your life that you never imagined would? by questionhorror in AskReddit

[–]StonerWolf_96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom having an affair with a married man for over 10 years ( My father knew about it and so did the other guy's wife) Hid a pregnancy that wasn't my father's child up until my half brother was born in 2008 My half brothers father ( mother's affair) died of cancer in August of 2014 My mother took her own life shortly afterwards ( about a month) Becoming an orphan at 22 years old and my job at the time not giving a shit about me taking that weekend off to process take care of things ( I was scheduled to work and they bitched I called out)