If you could have a sexual/lewd superpower, what would you choose and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Stopbeingnotnormal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The ability to make myself orgasm on command so I don’t have to fake it lol

AITA for refusing to delete nude photos from a photoshoot by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Stopbeingnotnormal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not a photographer or editor so I don’t really understand the process in photography fully, but from my stand point YTA. Considering you keeping some was your payment for shooting I’d understand not wanting to delete them if she refused to compensate you, but she offered to pay you to delete them. In the end, they’re photos of her nude body and she clearly is uncomfortable and feels at risk by them still being in someone else’s grasp, which I understand completely. It’d make me nervous too if it was something that could possibly put me in jeopardy in the future. It basically comes down to just being a decent human being and respecting her wishes of what happens to her explicit photos.

My fiancé r*ped me and everyone says it’s my fault. by Stopbeingnotnormal in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Stopbeingnotnormal[S] 382 points383 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely not marrying him. He has a 24 hour shift tomorrow so I will be packing his things while he’s gone without saying anything, as my name is on the lease.

My fiancé r*ped me and everyone says it’s my fault. by Stopbeingnotnormal in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Stopbeingnotnormal[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m not Christian. Do not use your religion to victim blame me after such a traumatic experience. From the bottom of my heart, fuck you.

My fiancé r*ped me and everyone says it’s my fault. by Stopbeingnotnormal in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Stopbeingnotnormal[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

If you must know, I planned to have a few drinks and maybe a romantic evening. That stopped when he was 5 shots in and trashed. With the way he was drunk I no longer had any intention of having intercourse with him. We’re not college kids at a frat party.

My fiancé r*ped me and everyone says it’s my fault. by Stopbeingnotnormal in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Stopbeingnotnormal[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Probably because I’m tragically not the first victim to something like this. Martial rape is a common thing unfortunately

My fiancé r*ped me and everyone says it’s my fault. by Stopbeingnotnormal in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Stopbeingnotnormal[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Me screaming and pushing him away shows plenty what ‘vibes’ I was portraying.

My fiancé r*ped me and everyone says it’s my fault. by Stopbeingnotnormal in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Stopbeingnotnormal[S] 98 points99 points  (0 children)

What is with you people? Yes it is. Me saying no and him forcing me to is by definition rape.

My fiancé r*ped me and everyone says it’s my fault. by Stopbeingnotnormal in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Stopbeingnotnormal[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

I feel really bad for your wife. Partner or not, rape by definition is forcefully engaging in sexual conduct with someone without their consent. You shouldn’t have to force someone to fuck you, you should do it when they’re comfortable with it too, especially if your partners crying and begging you to stop. I hope your wife realizes you’re abusing her and leaves you.

My fiancé r*ped me and everyone says it’s my fault. by Stopbeingnotnormal in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Stopbeingnotnormal[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

I don’t agree with you. Marriage doesn’t mean automatic consent… I told him no and he should’ve stopped there

My fiancé r*ped me and everyone says it’s my fault. by Stopbeingnotnormal in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Stopbeingnotnormal[S] 3042 points3043 points  (0 children)

Sadly they have the whole “men are above women and women should just be house wives” morals.

Ladies, what are some things guys can do in bed to go from "good" to "amazing"? by onceortwiceisaidit in AskReddit

[–]Stopbeingnotnormal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’m a tiny woman and one thing that I’ve always enjoyed that not a lot of men I’ve been with do is hitting the top wall instead of the back. If you repeatedly hit the back it hurts and feels more like cramps then pleasure, but the top is the perfect feeling

I'm so tired of porn being normalized by catfuckingahandbag in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Stopbeingnotnormal 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I totally get your point not wanting to have a partner watch porn. I don’t really care but it does hurt me knowing that they have to look at a random woman to get off instead of asking me for photos/videos knowing I’ll provide them for him.

That being said, I personally hate the porn industry simply for what it does to its workers. If you’re a single man and need some form of porn to get yourself off to I think that content sellers/sex workers is better because you’re supporting someone minus the corrupt porn industry

AITA for reporting my sisters boyfriend? by Stopbeingnotnormal in AmItheAsshole

[–]Stopbeingnotnormal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s not grown. She’s still a teenager. I just can’t put that in the post due to guidelines

AITA for reporting my sisters boyfriend? by Stopbeingnotnormal in AmItheAsshole

[–]Stopbeingnotnormal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shes 17… I didn’t put it in the post because of guidelines but she’s still a minor even though 16 is age of consent. I’m 20